Texas Divorce: Getting Your Spouse to Leave the Marital Home [2023] (2024)

Last Updated on January 24, 2023 by Benson Varghese

When a marriage is falling apart, the two parties may not want to look at each other, much less live under the same roof. Often in these situations, one of the spouses moves out while the divorce proceeds to its conclusion. In some cases, both parties intend to remain in the marital home until the divorce is final.

However, if one spouse feels a threat of family violence to themselves or their children from the other party, they may need the court to intervene to get the spouse to leave. In such cases, you must apply for a restraining order and have a hearing before a judge, who will determine the validity of the request.

If facing one of these predicaments, you need an experienced family law attorney. The Varghese Summersett Family Law Group is here to help.

In this post, we’ll explain how Texas courts deal with living arrangements during a divorce, temporary restraining orders, and when it’s legal to lock your spouse out of the house.

Do I have to move out because my spouse asked me to?

No. Neither spouse can force the other to move out if their names are on the lease or mortgage. Both spouses have a right to remain in the home. It will take a court order to force someone from their residence unless, of course, there is a domestic violence component.

Can my spouse cancel our lease on me in Texas?

The person who appears on the lease and is paying the lease can cancel the lease. That means, yes, if your name is not listed on the lease, you could be forced to vacate the home.
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What are my rights if my spouse locked me out of the house in Texas?

You can’t force your spouse to leave the home without police or court intervention. If your spouse locks you out of the house and you are not prepared to stay somewhere else for the night, you should call the police to the home. Have a friend with you as a witness on the scene. Be prepared to record a phone video of any incidents with your spouse.

If your spouse refuses to let you in the house, you can call a locksmith to enter the home. If necessary, it’s within your rights to break the door in or a window to enter your home.

If forced to break into your home, it’s good to have video of the moment to show you were not being violent. If the police are on the scene, they could facilitate your entry with the other spouse so that breaking in isn’t necessary. Whatever you decide, it’s important to keep documentation and have proof of your actions to show the court.

Can I get my spouse to leave if I own the house in Texas?

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Divorce lawyers are asked this question all of the time. You can’t kick your spouse out of the house even if you own it. In Texas, everything, including a house, is considered community property until it’s proven to be separate property before a judge during a divorce hearing. This includes a house, even if only one spouse is on the lease or title, and the house pre-dates the current marriage.

However, in the long run, the ownership of the house or the proceeds from the sale of the house remains to be determined through the divorce process when a judge divides the community estate between the two parties. The circ*mstances of each specific divorce factor into the judge’s division of property.

How do you legally get your spouse to leave in Texas?

You can’t kick your spouse out of the house in Texas without first having a hearing before a judge. Kick-out orders in Texas are only possible if there are allegations of family violence. Typically, one spouse can’t get the other spouse to leave the residence unless a protective order application requests specific relief – one spouse requesting the other spouse be removed from the home.

If the judge determines that allegations of family violence are true, they can sign a protective order that excludes the spouse from the marital home.
The Texas Family Code Ch. 38 requires that the requesting spouse must show the court:
* Evidence of family violence by the other spouse
* Evidence that the other spouse committed an act of family violence within 30 days of the application being filed
* The spouse applying for the protective order has lived in the marital home within the previous 30 days

Does a restraining order force your spouse to leave the marital home?

A standard temporary restraining order does not force your spouse from the marital home. In fact, it does the opposite. When a judge issues a TRO, it includes provisions that prevent changing the locks on the residence and excluding the spouse from using the home. Unless there is a threat of family violence, of course, the court will not allow someone to exclude another from their marital home. Until determined otherwise, it’s their legal property, too. Forcing the spouse to leave the home would deprive them of their property without due process.

What are temporary orders hearings in Texas divorce?

Temporary orders are used as a means to get an agreement about child custody and spousal support in place while the divorce process plays out. Temporary restraining and protective orders are emergency agreements used to protect the safety of a child or spouse. During the temporary orders hearing, the judge determines who has exclusive use of the marital home if the two parties can’t agree on an arrangement while the divorce is pending. This hearing is the first chance for both parties to appear before the judge, who can potentially decide on the details of the final divorce decree.

Whether you need to leave the marital home or want your spouse to leave, these decisions should be carefully considered with the help of a trusted family law attorney. An experienced family law attorney will help guide you through the pros and cons of each decision and help you decide what is best for you and your family.

What is a two-year protective order or permanent protective order in Texas?

Permanent protective orders are in effect for however long the judge allows in the order. Generally, they last for up to two years, but a judge can issue a longer order if:
* The respondent committed an act of family violence considered to be a felony offense against you or a member of your family or household, even if they were never charged or convicted;
* The respondent caused serious bodily injury to you or a member of your family or household; or
* The petitioner had two or more previous protective orders issued against the respondent, and in each prior case, the judge found that the respondent committed family violence and was likely to commit family violence in the future.

The respondent can file a motion seeking the order to be discontinued through a hearing on its merits after a year has passed. If there is no time period written in the order, it expires on the second anniversary of the date the order was issued.
To win a two-year protective order, however, the other party must be given notice and a chance to appear in court to dispute the order.

Will my spouse be notified of a kick-out order before they go into effect?

Yes, a judge could be required to give notice before a kick-out order goes into effect and forces the spouse to leave. If you feel an immediate threat of violence from the spouse, you should contact law enforcement before the order goes into effect.

What happens if both spouses file kick-out orders against each other?

If both spouses file for kick-out orders, the judge will hear both sides and determine a plan accordingly. The judge will attempt to resolve the conflicting kick-out orders so that both spouses can, perhaps, remain in the same marital home until the divorce is finalized.

How long does a kick-out order last in Tarrant County?

The length of a kick-out order in Texas varies. A judge can make an order as short as 30 days before reassessing the specific situation. The judge could order the kick-out to remain in effect and force one spouse to leave until they determine who will win the marital home’s primary residence and the divorce is finalized.

When should you remain in your house during a divorce in Texas?

If you want to continue to live in your house after a divorce is final, are fighting for child custody, or don’t think it’s fair to pay for the house while your soon-to-be ex-spouse lives in it, it’s wise to continue residing in the home.

Why is remaining in your marital home during divorce smart in Texas?

If you move out immediately, you’re giving the judge a precedent to create an easy way to determine who deserves to remain in the house or win custody of the children if you leave children with your spouse in the home. The court could assume you weren’t too concerned about your children, belongings, or returning to live in the house if you’ve already moved into another place.

In contrast, if you remain living in the marital home while claiming your spouse is violent and a danger to you and your kids, the court is less likely to take your family violence claims seriously.

It’s important to note that temporarily staying somewhere else for a week will not doom your case before a judge. If a spouse feels the other party is unstable and capable of violence or dangerous behavior, taking a break apart might be the wisest move. And if it’s explained adequately to a judge, it would be appreciated. A good family law attorney will facilitate these complexities.

Another essential factor in this situation is proof of behavior. If you can show audio or video evidence of your spouse’s abusive or violent behavior, a judge will likely understand why you needed to move out for a few days.

If you have evidence proving the threat of violence, then filing for a protective or kick-out order is imperative. If you fear for your safety, it’s wise to move out while you wait the usual 14 days to get a temporary order hearing.

What is an ex parte protective order in Texas?

Ex parte protective orders in Texas are temporary orders to prevent a threat of immediate harm and force the spouse to leave the home. These are also known as emergency protective orders. Ex parte protective orders are usually valid for 20-day increments.

Ex parte is Latin for ‘from one party.’ In divorce proceedings, it means a motion for an order can be granted without waiting for a response from the other party. If the requesting spouse seeks to extend the ex parte order, the requesting party would appear at another hearing before a judge.

In some cases, the court will motion for an extension. Texas does not require that the excluded party be present during the hearing to execute the temporary ex parte protective order.

Texas Family Code requires an application seeking to exclude your spouse from the marital home. It must include an affidavit of the facts and circ*mstances for why the spouse must be excluded. The person to be excluded must have committed family violence against another household member within the past 30 days. The judge must also find proof that the spouse is likely to again commit family violence against someone in the household.

Can a spouse fight an ex parte order in Texas?

Texas Family Code Chapter 83 allows the court to recess an ex parte hearing to contact the respondent by telephone and give them an opportunity “to be present when the court resumes the hearing.” The court, however, reserves the right to resume the hearing whether or not the respondent can be present before the end of the working day.

The respondent has the right to file a motion to terminate or vacate the temporary ex parte protective order.

The respondent does have the right to file a motion to terminate or vacate the temporary ex parte protective order. The court must schedule a hearing as soon as possible on the matter once a motion to vacate is filed.

Do you need your spouse to leave in North Texas? Call us.

Are you dealing with a messy divorce? Are you in fear for your safety or the safety of your children? Have you been locked out of your marital home? Or do you need your spouse to leave the marital home before the divorce is final?

For all of these scenarios, you need a family law attorney with a deep understanding of Tarrant County’s family law courts. The Varghese Summersett Family Law Group has more than 30 years of combined experience fighting to win the best possible results for our clients.

For a consultation on these matters, including your options for staying in your marital home during and after your divorce, child custody, and temporary ex parte orders, call us at 817-900-3220.

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Turner Thornton is a well-known family law attorney in Fort Worth who leads the Varghese Summersett Family Law Group. Turner has successfully guided hundreds of individuals and families through the most trying period of their lives as a skilled negotiator and savvy litigator. Turner Thornton concentrates his practice on family law, including divorce, child custody, contempt, and modification cases. He is experienced in handling estates with significant and unique assets that can be difficult to value. He finds amicable resolutions where possible to conserve his client's resources, but knows how to take the gloves off if the situation calls for it. He has had remarkable results in and outside of the courtroom based largely on his ability and desire to understand his clients' needs and guide them on the pathway to what success looks like for them.

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FAQs

Can you force your spouse to leave the marital home in Texas? ›

Kick-out orders in Texas are only possible if there are allegations of family violence. Typically, one spouse can't get the other spouse to leave the residence unless a protective order application requests specific relief – one spouse requesting the other spouse be removed from the home.

Do I have to move out of my house during a divorce in Texas? ›

No one is required to move out during a Texas divorce

Until the property is distributed in the final divorce order, both parties have a right to be there. Whether one party should choose to move out before the divorce is finalized, however, should be the subject of careful consideration and discussion.

How do I get a divorce my husband won't leave the house? ›

You cannot force your partner to move out unless there is a court order granting you exclusive use of the home. This typically occurs during a temporary orders hearing in a divorce process. If you and your partner cannot agree on living arrangements, the judge will make the decision for you.

Why moving out is the biggest mistake in a divorce? ›

You Can Damage Your Child Custody Claim

One of the most significant ways moving out can influence your divorce is when it comes to child custody. If you move out, it means you don't spend as much time with your kids. Not only can this harm your relationship, but it can also damage your custody claims.

What are the spousal abandonment laws in Texas? ›

While rare, Texas courts will award an abandonment divorce if the other spouse has voluntarily left the marital residence with no intention of ever returning and has stayed away for at least one year. The one-year period must be continuous.

What is a stay at home wife entitled to in divorce Texas? ›

In Texas, there are two types of alimony that may be available to stay-at-home parents: temporary and permanent spousal maintenance. Temporary maintenance is usually awarded when one spouse needs financial assistance while they wait for the divorce proceedings to be finalized.

Who gets to stay in the house during separation in Texas? ›

In Texas, both spouses usually have a right to live in the home prior to a divorce being finalized. There are, however, exceptions. There are times when one spouse can be excluded from the home and this exclusion can be accomplished by filing a motion for a temporary injunction once a divorce has been initiated.

Do I have to leave my house if my wife wants a divorce? ›

California is a “community property state,” which means property a couple acquires during their marriage belongs to both parties. In many cases, this includes their home, which means one spouse cannot force the other to move out simply because they are in the process of divorcing.

Who gets to stay in the house during a divorce in Texas? ›

The most common type of real estate divided during a divorce is the marital home. If one spouse wants to stay in the home, they can agree to keep the house and the debt associated with the house. The parties may also agree that one spouse will keep the house and give the other spouse half of the equity.

What to do if your husband refuses to leave the house? ›

If your spouse does not agree to leave the house, the only other ways to remove them from the house is through legal action, either by calling the police, applying for a protective order, or divorce. You cannot otherwise evict your spouse from their homestead.

Can my husband leave me with nothing in divorce? ›

Talk to a Lawyer

first, know that you have rights. He can't just leave a marriage and leave you with no money. A family law attorney or divorce lawyer can help you understand your options and rights based on your particular situation and the relevant state or local laws.

Can you force your husband to leave the house? ›

You can certainly ask, but you cannot compel your spouse to leave, except in the case of domestic abuse, in which case a court injunction would be needed.

Who ends up worse after divorce? ›

Ultimately, the overall economic quality of a man's life, based on earnings and amount spent on living expenses, increases after his divorce. He continues to earn more but bears fewer family expenses. The overall economic quality of a woman's life, post-divorce, decreases.

Who leaves most often in divorce? ›

A study led by the American Sociological Association determined that nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women. And the percentage of college-educated American women who initiated divorce is even higher.

Who does worse after divorce? ›

Both ex-spouses take a loss, but typically, men suffer a larger hit to their standard of living than women — between 10 and 40% — due to alimony and child support responsibilities, the need for a separate place to live, an extra set of household furniture and other expenses.

Does a husband have to support his wife during separation in Texas? ›

Is Spousal Support Mandatory in Texas? No, spousal support is not mandatory in Texas. In the case of a divorce where a spouse is seeking spousal support, the judge will ensure that the situation meets the requirements laid out in Texas law in order to qualify for spousal support.

How does adultery affect divorce in Texas? ›

Adultery and divorce: Can infidelity affect divorce settlements in Texas? Yes. If you are able to convince a judge that your spouse's cheating is the ground on which your divorce should be based, you could be awarded a greater share of the marital property.

How do I prove abandonment in Texas? ›

To use abandonment as grounds for divorce, you must show the court that your ex-spouse left with the intention to never come back. Just leaving is not enough. The intent to leave you permanently must also be there. Further, the spouse must have been gone for at least a year.

How many years do you have to be married in Texas to get spousal support? ›

So even in divorce cases where one of the spouses earns a sizeable income, that is the most you can expect. In addition, you must be married a minimum of 10 years in order to qualify for spousal maintenance in Texas.”

Can my wife kick me out of the house during a divorce in Texas? ›

Everything is considered community property until proven to be separate property during a Texas divorce, so even if it is your house from prior to marriage, you cannot kick someone out or change the locks.

Is my wife entitled to half my house if it's in my name in Texas? ›

Texas is one of nine states that is a community property jurisdiction. In general, this means that any property acquired by a couple during their marriage (with a few exceptions) is equally owned by both spouses. This can have a profound effect on the dissolution of property during divorce proceedings.

Is Texas a 50 50 state in divorce? ›

Texas is not a 50/50 community property state. The Texas Family Code requires a just and right division of community property. Judges may divide 55/45 or 60/40 if they see bad behavior on one side, or if there are fault grounds (adultery, cruelty, etc.), or if there is disparity in earning capabilities.

How long does divorce take in Texas? ›

Theoretically, the least amount of time it can take to get divorced in Texas is 61 days. However, even an uncontested divorce typically takes about three to four months to finalize due to the court's docket and the schedules of all the parties involved.

How much does a divorce cost in Texas? ›

Any divorce in which the spouses cannot agree on the terms of the split is considered a contested divorce. Contested divorces in Texas can set you back an average of $15,600. On average, an experienced family law attorney will cost you around $320 per hour.

Does my husband have to pay the bills until we are divorced? ›

When the spouses are legally separated, any new debts are usually considered the separate debt of the spouse that incurred them. However, not all states recognize legal separation. In that case, debts may continue to allot until the divorce filing or the divorce decree, depending on state law.

Can a doctor ask a spouse to leave the room? ›

Occasionally a family member might be asked to step out, but mostly it's based on the patient's wishes.

What to do when your spouse wants to move and you don t? ›

What to Do When Your Wife Wants to Move, and You Don't? 3 Steps for Solution
  1. Listen Carefully and Try to Understand Your Wife. No, don't change the subject every time she mentions moving. ...
  2. Think About What You Want. Where do you see yourself in the future? ...
  3. Discusses Your Marriage With Your Spouse.
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Can I sell my house during a divorce in Texas? ›

In most circ*mstances, the Texas court cannot order your house to be sold pending final divorce. Do not feel pressured into making a decision about a large asset of your marriage. Right now it's a seller's market in the Austin, TX area.

Is a separate bank account considered community property in Texas? ›

Even if you owned the property beforehand, unless you are able to prove that you owned it and that no community funds have gone into it, there is a significant likelihood that it will be deemed to be community property. This happens when people have a bank account.

Can you divorce and live in the same house Texas? ›

Can we get divorced if we are still living together? Yes. It has become more common with the current state of the housing market and economy for spouses to continue living together while their divorce is pending.

What to do when your ex won't move out? ›

How can I evict my ex from a house I own when they refuse to leave?
  1. Give proper written notice.
  2. Wait for the move-out deadline in the notice to expire.
  3. File the necessary legal paperwork in court.

What to do when you need to leave your husband? ›

Here are some immediate steps to take and things to start doing as soon as you've made your decision:
  1. 1) Gather Documents & Keep Records. ...
  2. 2) Open a Separate Bank Account & Create Your Own Budget. ...
  3. 3) List Property & Other Assets. ...
  4. 4) Plan the Logistics of Your Exit. ...
  5. 5) Contact a Divorce Lawyer. ...
  6. 6) To Tell Your Spouse Or Not.
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How do I get my partner to move out? ›

At some point during the conversation, you should say something like:
  1. “I would like for you to find a different place to live.”
  2. “I don't think that this living arrangement is working anymore; I'd like you to move out.”
  3. “I'm not willing for us to live in the same apartment anymore.”

What is a malicious desertion? ›

Malicious desertion divides into two categories i.e. direct and constructive. Direct malicious desertion is when deserting spouse leaves the matrimonial home. Constructive malicious desertion is when the innocent spouse is compelled to leave the home permanently as a result of other spouse's faults.

What is emotional abandonment in marriage? ›

In the context of a marriage, the feelings of neglect, being left out, and not being heard are collectively referred to as emotional abandonment. It occurs when one partner is so preoccupied with their own concerns that they are unable to notice the struggles, concerns, or problems their partner is experiencing.

What is the spousal abandonment syndrome? ›

Spousal Abandonment Syndrome is when one of the spouses leaves the marriage without any warning, and—usually–without having shown any signs of unhappiness with the relationship. With spousal abandonment, there is often no outward sign that one of the spouses is frustrated or considering leaving the marriage.

How much equity is my ex entitled to? ›

Dividing Equity

If both of the spouses worked during the marriage and contributed equal amounts to the mortgage that they acquired after marriage, a 50/50 split is usually reasonable.

Who loses more financially in a divorce? ›

Generally: Men who provide less than 80% of a family's income before the divorce suffer the most. On the other hand, men who provided more than 80% of a family's income before a divorce do not suffer as much financial loss, and may even marginally improve their financial situation.

What age is worse for divorce? ›

Elementary school age (6–12) This is arguably the toughest age for children to deal with the separation or divorce of their parents. That's because they're old enough to remember the good times (or good feelings) from when you were a united family.

Who is better off financially after divorce? ›

According to various studies, the financial impact of a divorce is typically less severe for men compared to women. One report from the US Government Accountability Office found that men's household income fell by just 23% after divorcing past the age of 50.

Can a husband force his wife to leave the house? ›

The short answer is yes, you can force a Spouse to leave the marital residence. But there are requirements that must be met in order to have a sole legal claim to the marital home. An agreement between spouses on who is to move out and situations of domestic violence are examples meeting the requirements.

What can I do if my partner won't leave? ›

If your spouse does not agree to leave the house, the only other ways to remove them from the house is through legal action, either by calling the police, applying for a protective order, or divorce.

Who gets to keep the house in a Texas divorce? ›

The most common type of real estate divided during a divorce is the marital home. If one spouse wants to stay in the home, they can agree to keep the house and the debt associated with the house. The parties may also agree that one spouse will keep the house and give the other spouse half of the equity.

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