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A woman and her husband, both working in healthcare, decided to update their will and choose a guardian for their two children due to the increased risk of both of them passing away. They approached the woman's brother, who lives in the same city and knows their kids well. However, the brother refused the responsibility, leaving the couple feeling hurt and betrayed. Just a week later, the brother called asking for a significant amount of money, but the woman hesitated to help. Read on to find out how this family drama unfolds.
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Summary: Guardianship Denied, Money Withheld π₯
A healthcare worker and her husband wanted to update their will and choose a guardian for their children due to the increased risk of both of them passing away. They asked the woman's brother, who refused the responsibility. A week later, the brother asked for a significant amount of money, but the woman hesitated to help, feeling betrayed by his earlier refusal. The brother accused her of withholding money out of spite, but she argued it was about financial stability. The call ended on a sour note, leaving their relationship strained. Share your thoughts on this family conflict in the comments below. π
Brother refuses guardianship and loan, sister prioritizes kids. NTA.
gmaz2011 | gmaz2011
Sibling conflict over guardianship and financial assistance, NAH and NTA.
Slurav | Slurav
Sibling refuses guardianship and loan, brother reacts poorly π
Dull-Community | Dull-Community
Don't feel obligated to lend money, offer a gift card instead π³
teresajs | teresajs
Communication is key. Asking for guardianship is a lot. π
theburgerbitesback | theburgerbitesback
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NAH, understandable.
niamhk13 | niamhk13
NTA prioritizes job and savings over sibling's financial request π
Razaxun | Razaxun
Sibling disagreement over guardianship and financial help. ESH.
Mead_the_Honey_Bee | Mead_the_Honey_Bee
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NTA justified.
ceridwen04 | ceridwen04
Sibling rivalry at its finest, but no a**holes here π
lady_k_77 | lady_k_77
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister disappointed but shouldn't hold grudge π
gouf78 | gouf78
Financial boundaries are important, even with family. πΈ
WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020
Financial struggles bring siblings together in tough times. π
SandrineSmiles | SandrineSmiles
Sibling feud over guardianship and money preservation. NTA vs entitlement π€·ββοΈ
vodka_philosophy | vodka_philosophy
Don't risk everything for family, even during a crisis π²
cocoaqueen | cocoaqueen
When family fails to support: a disappointing reality π’
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Sibling refuses to help with kids, commenters debate family obligations π€
PicklesTickle91 | PicklesTickle91
Family ties don't mean unlimited financial support. NTA.
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Reddit users debate morality of orphaned nephew and niece
emurillo97 | emurillo97
Discussing a will update and child guardianship during a pandemic π
waltzingperegrine | waltzingperegrine
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denied help. NTA. π
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister prioritizes children's future. NAH.
murdershethrew | murdershethrew
Money or family? When to draw the line πΈπ
Jimothy-Goldenface | Jimothy-Goldenface
Sibling conflict resolved with a NTA judgement π
Envy_Harr | Envy_Harr
It's okay to say no to lending money, but don't be petty.
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Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies loan. NTA, but communication is key π
MrsPandaBear | MrsPandaBear
Sibling conflict resolved with NAH agreement.
allcontainedout | allcontainedout
Sibling feud over guardianship and finances, YTA for expecting help.
benjaminnyc | benjaminnyc
Respectful refusal of guardianship, sibling support not obligatory. π
lorrus | lorrus
Financial strain or spite? Judgment on sibling guardianship conflict π€
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Commenter raises valid questions, needs more context π€
LVogelski | LVogelski
Mixed feelings: NAH for custody, ESH for money loaning.
Keaoa | Keaoa
The decision to become a godparent requires enthusiasm and time π. Both siblings asked super big questions and got personal, leading to resentment on both sides. ESH.
GarlicButterGarnet | GarlicButterGarnet
Sibling refuses guardianship, demands money. NTA prioritizes own family.
Gmork_from_Ork | Gmork_from_Ork
Valid reasons for both siblings, but being a guardian is tough π
Valo-FfM | Valo-FfM
Sibling refuses guardianship and loan request, causing family tension π
uhno28 | uhno28
The shift towards 'families of choice' weakens traditional family structures. NTA.
ditchdiggergirl | ditchdiggergirl
Sibling dilemma: To help or not to help? NAH explains.
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Sibling feud over guardianship and financial help, NAH bordering YTA π€·ββοΈ
aluriaphin | aluriaphin
Sibling conflict resolved with mutual understanding and financial advice π
iluvcats17 | iluvcats17
Sibling refuses financial help, commenter shares similar experience with brother
fromthecatsmouth | fromthecatsmouth
Sibling feud over guardianship and money - commenters debate fairness.
morganmouse89 | morganmouse89
OP may be TA for refusing to help brother out of spite π
rosenengel | rosenengel
Sibling conflict resolved with a fair outcome π
ElizabethHiems | ElizabethHiems
Sibling drama unfolds as brother refuses guardianship, sister denies help π
PurlPaladin | PurlPaladin
Brother refuses guardianship, demands sister's life savings. Not cool π
24pregnantBC | 24pregnantBC
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister demands help. Commenter calls out entitlement.
xjsscx | xjsscx
Sibling denies guardianship, brother refuses financial help. NTA wins.
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Sibling refuses guardianship, sister seeks reasons. What happened next?
WaDaEp | WaDaEp
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies loan. Money troubles brewing π‘
o0oDreamWeavero0o | o0oDreamWeavero0o
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NAH.
maddallena | maddallena
Agreeing to be a legal guardian is a huge ask, but linking it to money is not fair. YTA π
ktembo | ktembo
Sibling refuses guardianship but asks for a huge loan. NTA.
STMemOfChipmunk | STMemOfChipmunk
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. Alternatives suggested. π
DIADAMS | DIADAMS
Sibling feud over guardianship and finances sparks YTA/NTA debate π€
Jariel77 | Jariel77
Sibling conflict over guardianship and financial support, ESH/NTA dilemma π€
Freezer47 | Freezer47
Financial struggles during pandemic: Loan payment pause options discussed π€
HoomanGroovin | HoomanGroovin
Respectful refusal of guardianship doesn't mean obligation for financial help π
EverydayEverynight01 | EverydayEverynight01
Sibling conflict resolved with a NTA judgement π
horsefeathers1995 | horsefeathers1995
Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies money. NTA with conditions. π
spinsternonsense | spinsternonsense
Sibling conflict over finances during pandemic, advice on boundaries and options π
starsongnight | starsongnight