Siblings at Odds: Brother Refuses Guardianship, Sister Denies Financial Help 😲 (2024)

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Updating the Will πŸ“ Asking the Brother πŸ€” A Big Ask πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ Immediate Rejection 😒 What's Family For? πŸ’” Money Matters πŸ’° Dipping into Savings? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Motivation Lost 😞 Angry Accusations 😑 Financial Stability 🏦 The Call Ends πŸ“ž Summary: Guardianship Denied, Money Withheld πŸ’₯ Brother refuses guardianship and loan, sister prioritizes kids. NTA. Sibling conflict over guardianship and financial assistance, NAH and NTA. Sibling refuses guardianship and loan, brother reacts poorly πŸ˜’ Don't feel obligated to lend money, offer a gift card instead πŸ’³ Communication is key. Asking for guardianship is a lot. πŸ™Œ Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NAH, understandable. NTA prioritizes job and savings over sibling's financial request πŸ‘ Sibling disagreement over guardianship and financial help. ESH. Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NTA justified. Sibling rivalry at its finest, but no a**holes here 😎 Sibling refuses guardianship, sister disappointed but shouldn't hold grudge πŸ˜• Financial boundaries are important, even with family. πŸ’Έ Financial struggles bring siblings together in tough times. πŸ‘ Sibling feud over guardianship and money preservation. NTA vs entitlement πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Don't risk everything for family, even during a crisis 😲 When family fails to support: a disappointing reality 😒 Sibling refuses to help with kids, commenters debate family obligations πŸ€” Family ties don't mean unlimited financial support. NTA. Reddit users debate morality of orphaned nephew and niece Discussing a will update and child guardianship during a pandemic πŸ˜” Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denied help. NTA. πŸ™ Sibling refuses guardianship, sister prioritizes children's future. NAH. Money or family? When to draw the line πŸ’ΈπŸ™Ž Sibling conflict resolved with a NTA judgement πŸ‘ It's okay to say no to lending money, but don't be petty. Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies loan. NTA, but communication is key πŸ‘ Sibling conflict resolved with NAH agreement. Sibling feud over guardianship and finances, YTA for expecting help. Respectful refusal of guardianship, sibling support not obligatory. πŸ™ Financial strain or spite? Judgment on sibling guardianship conflict πŸ€” Commenter raises valid questions, needs more context πŸ€” Mixed feelings: NAH for custody, ESH for money loaning. The decision to become a godparent requires enthusiasm and time πŸ™. Both siblings asked super big questions and got personal, leading to resentment on both sides. ESH. Sibling refuses guardianship, demands money. NTA prioritizes own family. Valid reasons for both siblings, but being a guardian is tough πŸ˜• Sibling refuses guardianship and loan request, causing family tension πŸ˜” The shift towards 'families of choice' weakens traditional family structures. NTA. Sibling dilemma: To help or not to help? NAH explains. Sibling feud over guardianship and financial help, NAH bordering YTA πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ Sibling conflict resolved with mutual understanding and financial advice πŸ‘ Sibling refuses financial help, commenter shares similar experience with brother Sibling feud over guardianship and money - commenters debate fairness. OP may be TA for refusing to help brother out of spite πŸ˜• Sibling conflict resolved with a fair outcome πŸ‘ Sibling drama unfolds as brother refuses guardianship, sister denies help πŸ˜• Brother refuses guardianship, demands sister's life savings. Not cool πŸ˜‘ Sibling refuses guardianship, sister demands help. Commenter calls out entitlement. Sibling denies guardianship, brother refuses financial help. NTA wins. Sibling refuses guardianship, sister seeks reasons. What happened next? Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies loan. Money troubles brewing 😑 Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NAH. Agreeing to be a legal guardian is a huge ask, but linking it to money is not fair. YTA πŸ˜• Sibling refuses guardianship but asks for a huge loan. NTA. Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. Alternatives suggested. πŸ™ Sibling feud over guardianship and finances sparks YTA/NTA debate πŸ€” Sibling conflict over guardianship and financial support, ESH/NTA dilemma πŸ€” Financial struggles during pandemic: Loan payment pause options discussed πŸ€” Respectful refusal of guardianship doesn't mean obligation for financial help πŸ™ Sibling conflict resolved with a NTA judgement πŸ‘ Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies money. NTA with conditions. 😐 Sibling conflict over finances during pandemic, advice on boundaries and options πŸ‘
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A woman and her husband, both working in healthcare, decided to update their will and choose a guardian for their two children due to the increased risk of both of them passing away. They approached the woman's brother, who lives in the same city and knows their kids well. However, the brother refused the responsibility, leaving the couple feeling hurt and betrayed. Just a week later, the brother called asking for a significant amount of money, but the woman hesitated to help. Read on to find out how this family drama unfolds.

Updating the Will πŸ“

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Immediate Rejection 😒

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What's Family For? πŸ’”

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Money Matters πŸ’°

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Dipping into Savings? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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Motivation Lost 😞

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Angry Accusations 😑

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Financial Stability 🏦

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The Call Ends πŸ“ž

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Summary: Guardianship Denied, Money Withheld πŸ’₯

A healthcare worker and her husband wanted to update their will and choose a guardian for their children due to the increased risk of both of them passing away. They asked the woman's brother, who refused the responsibility. A week later, the brother asked for a significant amount of money, but the woman hesitated to help, feeling betrayed by his earlier refusal. The brother accused her of withholding money out of spite, but she argued it was about financial stability. The call ended on a sour note, leaving their relationship strained. Share your thoughts on this family conflict in the comments below. πŸ‘‡

Sibling conflict over guardianship and financial assistance, NAH and NTA.

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Slurav | Slurav

Sibling refuses guardianship and loan, brother reacts poorly πŸ˜’

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Dull-Community | Dull-Community

Don't feel obligated to lend money, offer a gift card instead πŸ’³

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teresajs | teresajs

Communication is key. Asking for guardianship is a lot. πŸ™Œ

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theburgerbitesback | theburgerbitesback

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NAH, understandable.

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niamhk13 | niamhk13

NTA prioritizes job and savings over sibling's financial request πŸ‘

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Razaxun | Razaxun

Sibling disagreement over guardianship and financial help. ESH.

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Mead_the_Honey_Bee | Mead_the_Honey_Bee

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NTA justified.

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ceridwen04 | ceridwen04

Sibling rivalry at its finest, but no a**holes here 😎

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lady_k_77 | lady_k_77

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister disappointed but shouldn't hold grudge πŸ˜•

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gouf78 | gouf78

Financial boundaries are important, even with family. πŸ’Έ

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WineAndDogs2020 | WineAndDogs2020

Financial struggles bring siblings together in tough times. πŸ‘

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SandrineSmiles | SandrineSmiles

Sibling feud over guardianship and money preservation. NTA vs entitlement πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

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vodka_philosophy | vodka_philosophy

Don't risk everything for family, even during a crisis 😲

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cocoaqueen | cocoaqueen

When family fails to support: a disappointing reality 😒

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Sibling refuses to help with kids, commenters debate family obligations πŸ€”

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PicklesTickle91 | PicklesTickle91

Family ties don't mean unlimited financial support. NTA.

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Reddit users debate morality of orphaned nephew and niece

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emurillo97 | emurillo97

Discussing a will update and child guardianship during a pandemic πŸ˜”

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waltzingperegrine | waltzingperegrine

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denied help. NTA. πŸ™

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Buying_Bagels | Buying_Bagels

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister prioritizes children's future. NAH.

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murdershethrew | murdershethrew

Money or family? When to draw the line πŸ’ΈπŸ™Ž

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Jimothy-Goldenface | Jimothy-Goldenface

Sibling conflict resolved with a NTA judgement πŸ‘

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Envy_Harr | Envy_Harr

It's okay to say no to lending money, but don't be petty.

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Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies loan. NTA, but communication is key πŸ‘

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MrsPandaBear | MrsPandaBear

Sibling conflict resolved with NAH agreement.

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allcontainedout | allcontainedout

Sibling feud over guardianship and finances, YTA for expecting help.

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benjaminnyc | benjaminnyc

Respectful refusal of guardianship, sibling support not obligatory. πŸ™

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lorrus | lorrus

Financial strain or spite? Judgment on sibling guardianship conflict πŸ€”

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Commenter raises valid questions, needs more context πŸ€”

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LVogelski | LVogelski

Mixed feelings: NAH for custody, ESH for money loaning.

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Keaoa | Keaoa

The decision to become a godparent requires enthusiasm and time πŸ™. Both siblings asked super big questions and got personal, leading to resentment on both sides. ESH.

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GarlicButterGarnet | GarlicButterGarnet

Sibling refuses guardianship, demands money. NTA prioritizes own family.

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Gmork_from_Ork | Gmork_from_Ork

Valid reasons for both siblings, but being a guardian is tough πŸ˜•

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Valo-FfM | Valo-FfM

Sibling refuses guardianship and loan request, causing family tension πŸ˜”

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uhno28 | uhno28

The shift towards 'families of choice' weakens traditional family structures. NTA.

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ditchdiggergirl | ditchdiggergirl

Sibling dilemma: To help or not to help? NAH explains.

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chloeo_fangirl | chloeo_fangirl

Sibling feud over guardianship and financial help, NAH bordering YTA πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

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aluriaphin | aluriaphin

Sibling conflict resolved with mutual understanding and financial advice πŸ‘

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iluvcats17 | iluvcats17

Sibling refuses financial help, commenter shares similar experience with brother

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fromthecatsmouth | fromthecatsmouth

Sibling feud over guardianship and money - commenters debate fairness.

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morganmouse89 | morganmouse89

OP may be TA for refusing to help brother out of spite πŸ˜•

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rosenengel | rosenengel

Sibling conflict resolved with a fair outcome πŸ‘

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ElizabethHiems | ElizabethHiems

Sibling drama unfolds as brother refuses guardianship, sister denies help πŸ˜•

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PurlPaladin | PurlPaladin

Brother refuses guardianship, demands sister's life savings. Not cool πŸ˜‘

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24pregnantBC | 24pregnantBC

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister demands help. Commenter calls out entitlement.

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xjsscx | xjsscx

Sibling denies guardianship, brother refuses financial help. NTA wins.

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Sibling refuses guardianship, sister seeks reasons. What happened next?

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WaDaEp | WaDaEp

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies loan. Money troubles brewing 😑

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o0oDreamWeavero0o | o0oDreamWeavero0o

Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. NAH.

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maddallena | maddallena

Agreeing to be a legal guardian is a huge ask, but linking it to money is not fair. YTA πŸ˜•

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ktembo | ktembo

Sibling refuses guardianship but asks for a huge loan. NTA.

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Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies financial help. Alternatives suggested. πŸ™

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Sibling feud over guardianship and finances sparks YTA/NTA debate πŸ€”

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Sibling conflict over guardianship and financial support, ESH/NTA dilemma πŸ€”

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Financial struggles during pandemic: Loan payment pause options discussed πŸ€”

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HoomanGroovin | HoomanGroovin

Respectful refusal of guardianship doesn't mean obligation for financial help πŸ™

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Sibling conflict resolved with a NTA judgement πŸ‘

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Sibling refuses guardianship, sister denies money. NTA with conditions. 😐

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