- Family
Diply | Diply
Imagine being a mother, caught in a heart-wrenching dilemma of choosing between protecting your child's future and maintaining harmony in your blended family. This is the story of a 42-year-old woman who finds herself in such a predicament. After tragically losing her husband, she set up a trust fund for their daughter. Now, her new husband suggests they split the fund among all their children, including his from a previous marriage. What would you do? π€π
The Inheritance: A College Fund ππ°
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
Trending
Homeowner Stands His Ground: Reinforced Mailbox Ends Teen's Scholarship Dreams π π
Bride's Bold Move: Bans MIL's Controversial Song at Wedding π±
Father Forbids Son from Backyard: Neighbor's Complaint or Teen's Innocence? π²
Woman Secretly Plans to Move Out on Controlling Boyfriend π±
Teenager Refuses to Split Inheritance with Stepsiblings, Causing Family Drama π±π
Man's Honesty Costs Ex-Girlfriend's Father His Job π±
The New Family Equation π¨βπ©βπ§βπ¦
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
Must Read
Teen's 18th Birthday Ruined by Funeral Plans: Right or Wrong? πβ°οΈ
Working from Home Chaos: Sister Distracts GF During Final Exam π±π
The College Dream Comes True ππ
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
The Financial Dilemma π°π€·ββοΈ
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
The Proposal: Split the Fund πΈπ¨βπ©βπ§βπ¦
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
The Mother's Stand ππ©βπ§
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
The Counter Argument: Sibling Love vs Inheritance ππ¨βπ©βπ§βπ¦
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
The Accusation: Selfishness or Protection? ππ©βπ§
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
The Uncertainty: Right or Wrong? π€·ββοΈπ
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
The Other Funds: Not Enough πΈπ
aitacollegefundmom | aitacollegefundmom
A Mother's Dilemma: Protecting a Child's Inheritance or Ensuring Fairness? ππΈπ
Caught in a whirlwind of emotions and tough decisions, this mother is torn between safeguarding her daughter's trust fund and ensuring equal opportunities for all her children. The trust fund, a result of a tragic loss, was meant to secure her daughter's future. Now, her husband's proposal to split it among all the kids could potentially disrupt this plan. Is she being selfish for wanting to protect her daughter's inheritance, or is she merely fulfilling her duty as a mother? Let's delve into the internet's thoughts on this emotionally charged situation. ππΈπ
"NTANo Way! He needs to provide for his kids. You have (tragically) provided for your kid. This is her money. Why hasn't he been saving for his kids education all along? He can cosign on his kids loans and pay them off.These are his kids and he and his ex-wife need to provide their educational expenses!"π°π
OverRice2524 | OverRice2524
"NTA. Protect your daughter's college fund from your selfish husband. πΈ"
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. It's your daughter's money, not her entitled step-siblings'. π
StonewallBrigade21 | StonewallBrigade21
Engaging comment and replies: Fairness, inheritance, and protecting the daughter. π
YouthNAsia63 | YouthNAsia63
NTA. Spouse needs a reality check from online strangers. π€―
AscorbicDH | AscorbicDH
NTA: Husband's greed threatens daughter's college fund. Get legal protection! πͺπ‘
Used_Mark_7911 | Used_Mark_7911
Stepdad's greed threatens daughter's future. Hold your ground, NTA! π
AshesB77 | AshesB77
Red flag! NTA, consider leaving if he keeps stealing money π
ImpossibleAd7376 | ImpossibleAd7376
NTA: Husband's request is illegal. Stepchildren had advantages over daughter. πΆ
winesis | winesis
Tragic loss, but daughter's money should stay hers. π
ReviewOk929 | ReviewOk929
NTA: Your stepkid's college funds aren't your daughter's responsibility...
Hot-Plum-874 | Hot-Plum-874
Divorce threat over daughter's college fund? π
Reasonable-Yam-6779 | Reasonable-Yam-6779
NTA- Shut his sh*t DOWN. Disgusting behavior. Need update! π
Big-Lobster5621 | Big-Lobster5621
NTA. Husband's true motives: $$$, not concern for stepdaughter. π€
Chilio95 | Chilio95
Protect your daughter's college fund! They have no rights! π°
fatboytoz | fatboytoz
NTA: Money isn't yours to give, don't let partner pressure daughter π°
semicoloncait | semicoloncait
NTA. It's her money, legally unable to split. π°
Cryptographer_Alone | Cryptographer_Alone
Entitlement and family money drama. Shut it down! π
Diligent-Syllabub898 | Diligent-Syllabub898
NTA. Lawyer advises on trust fund legality and potential fraud.
sprtnlawyr | sprtnlawyr
"NTA. Protect your daughter's inheritance. Check the trust's restrictions."
MissLili415 | MissLili415
NTA. Husband accused you of being selfish, but he's greedy π»
[deleted] | [deleted]
Respecting late husband's wishes: NTA, let daughter keep college funds. π
HulkBuster0422 | HulkBuster0422
Stand your ground! Don't let guilt dictate your daughter's future. πͺ
Electrical-Chard-968 | Electrical-Chard-968
NTA. Protecting your daughter's future and her father's contribution. π
C_Majuscula | C_Majuscula
Bold stance: NTA and die on this hill. π₯
Leading-Seesaw-8442 | Leading-Seesaw-8442
Stepdad vs. Daughter's College Fund: A Battle for Fairness π
ajaye90 | ajaye90
Heartbreaking custody battle over daughter's college fund. π’
Sense_Temporary | Sense_Temporary
Stepdad wants daughter's college fund. NTA. Money is hers alone. π°
Arquen_Marille | Arquen_Marille
Daughter's college fund: Should it be split or not? π°
Samu_2020_15 | Samu_2020_15
NTA: Daughter's college fund is hers. Stepfather should've saved too. π°
weepinwilo | weepinwilo
NTA: Husband's entitlement could lead to divorce. π’
[deleted] | [deleted]
Protecting her future: Daughter's college fund is off-limits! π°
Consistent_Patient88 | Consistent_Patient88
Heartless man tries to steal daughter's inheritance. NTA!
janenejan | janenejan
NTA. It's her money, not yours. Don't punish your daughter. π°
AlexRyang | AlexRyang
"NTA: It's an inheritance, not a college fund. Stand your ground!"
FoolMe1nceShameOnU | FoolMe1nceShameOnU
π NTA. Daughter's college fund should not be split. π°
crumpledspoon | crumpledspoon
NTA! Husband is an a**hole. Protect your daughter's college fund! π°π
MagicianOk6393 | MagicianOk6393
NTA, it's her money. Shut down the discussion. π°
aggressively-so-so | aggressively-so-so
NTA - Daughter shouldn't share her money. Father's selfishness affects everyone.
MercuryRising92 | MercuryRising92
Step daughter's tuition: Who's responsible? π°
Jmm1272 | Jmm1272
Bio dad's money causing tension between mom and stepdad. π±
Diligent-Syllabub898 | Diligent-Syllabub898
NTA, the college fund should be for her alone! π°
PlateNo7021 | PlateNo7021
Protect your daughter's future! Shut down this unfair request! π
Jallenrix | Jallenrix
Don't touch her college fund! It's her deceased father's gift. π°
gracenweaver | gracenweaver
NTA - Father's settlement should go to his daughter. πͺ
Lcdmt3 | Lcdmt3
Protect your daughter's future! Don't split her college fund! π
Optimal-Hamster5518 | Optimal-Hamster5518
NTA. Daughter's money, her choice. Let her decide, no pressure.
misslo718 | misslo718
Protect your daughter's college fund! NTA, prioritize her future π°
MrsT381 | MrsT381
Defending stepdaughter's privilege: NTA, husband's daughter lacks empathy. π
drkanyedicaprio | drkanyedicaprio
"NTA: Daughter's college fund is her inheritance, not her step-siblings' problem."
Impossible-Peach-985 | Impossible-Peach-985
Protecting your daughter's future π‘οΈπ©βπ
Massive-Relative-231 | Massive-Relative-231
Stepchildren have no right to daughter's college fund. NTA.
Equivalent_Collar_59 | Equivalent_Collar_59
Husband's financial mess: Should daughter's fund be split? π€
Own_Mathematician172 | Own_Mathematician172
Daughter's college fund: HER money, HER future. Don't back down! π°
Intelligent_Shine_54 | Intelligent_Shine_54
Daughter's college fund dilemma: NTA, trust her decision π°
SosFreeze | SosFreeze
Engaging response challenges fairness of trust fund distribution. π€
ValkyrieSword | ValkyrieSword
Husband's manipulative behavior sparks outrage. NTA, but divorce-worthy? π₯
votefawnmoscato | votefawnmoscato
"NTA: It's her money, not yours to steal."
Motor_Business483 | Motor_Business483
Husband's outrageous request: steal from your own daughter? π€―
Isomorphic_reasoning | Isomorphic_reasoning
Protecting your daughter's future: NTA π
eileenstein | eileenstein
NTA. Daughter's money, small debt, husband's full of sh*t. π
amazonfamily | amazonfamily
Stepfather wants daughter's college fund for his own kids? NTA!
Maleficent-Dinner-27 | Maleficent-Dinner-27
Protecting daughter's college fund from stepchildren. NTA, it's hers! π°
Snape4eva | Snape4eva