How Our Life Insurance Needs Have Changed Over the Years - What Mommy Does (2024)

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Today I want to talk about a serious subject: life insurance needs. Jeff Rose over at GoodFinancialCents has challenged personal finance bloggers, or anyone else with a passion about life insurance, for that matter, to write about the topic. The official LifeAware movement occurred on August 22nd, but I’m late writing this because I’ve been caught up in life with three kids. Go figure. ;=)

Life Insurance Needs Over the Years

Life insurance is what I would consider a necessary evil. Nobody wants to pay for it, but nobody wants to leave this world knowing their affairs won’t be taken care of once they’re gone.

My husband and I have gone through many types of insurance over the years. When we were first married, we purchased life insurance through work plans.

We chose random dollar amounts – we didn’t have any obligations like kids or a house and we were used to being poor college kids, so we didn’t think it would be a big deal if we suddenly lost one of our incomes.

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Life Insurance for Married Homeowners Without Children

Within a few years, though, we moved into a house and reconsidered the scenario where one of us might die. Considering the fact that we purchased our home based on two incomes and we were still young, we matched our insurance amounts with the value of our home and remarrying prospects.

We figured if one of us were to die, then the other person would need help making mortgage payments until he or she got remarried. According to my husband, that would be approximately 6 months for him and 5 years for me. LOL

Life Insurance Needs for Thirty-Something Parents with Three Kids

Fast forward a few more years, and we found ourselves having kids. This is when we really started getting serious about life insurance.

We had to consider how much money one of us would need if the other one were to die. We also had to figure in how much money it takes to raise a child. And another. And another!

Furthermore, we had to consider the fact that I don’t work outside of the home and my husband does.

What if I died?

What if my husband died?

What if we both died?

Would I remarry and when?

When would he remarry? hahahaha

There was a lot to consider. We met with a lady at State Farm who convinced us that a whole life policy was a good investment. We paid a lot for that plan and felt really secure with our coverage.

Since then, we’ve downgraded that plan and added a term life insurance plan with a much higher payout in the event of my husband’s passing. The new combination works better for us. It’s cheaper, yet offers more coverage in the immediate future while our children are still young and would require years and years of financial assistance in the event of our death(s).

What works for us might not work for everyone. But regardless of your life situation, if you have children in the mix, I encourage you to consider getting life insurance. It’s no fun paying the premiums now, but it sure is nice to know your family would be taken care of if you were no longer here.

As I’m writing this, I realize that even though we have life insurance, I’m not sure our family knows everything they need to know about the policy in case something were to happen to both my husband and myself at the same time. I think I know what needs to be on this weekend’s to-do list!

Do you think life insurance is important for your family? Did it take having kids for you to get serious about life insurance?

Life Insurance Resources:

How Much Life Insurance Do You Need? Get one personal finance blogger’s take on the amount of life insurance you need.

Types of Life Insurance – If you’ve ever wondered what the difference is between Whole, Variable, Term, and Universal life insurance, this article offers a good primer on the four types.

Life Insurance Needs Calculator – If you can answer a handful of questions about your current and future financial obligations, this calculator can spit out a life insurance needs recommendation.

#lifeAWARE Life Insurance Movement

Want to read over 100 other blog posts on the topic of life insurance? Head on over to the Life Insurance Movement!

Here are a handful of my favorites, especially as they relate to my post above:

Life Insurance by Age – Wondering whether 15-year-olds or 60-year-olds need life insurance? The Financial Blogger examines insurance needs over the decades @ Fabulously Broke.

Reasons Why Families Need to Get Life Insurance: Take It From a Guy Not Trying to Sell You a Policy – John @ My Family Finances approaches this serious subject with a good dose of humor and reality. He points out that your spouse would need to pay for daycare, college funds, and retirement even after you’re gone.

Should You Buy Life Insurance for Your Child? – I originally wanted to write about life insurance for kids, but it made me so sad to think of one of my children dying that I couldn’t do it. I’ll let Melissa over at Parenting Family Money broach the subject on my behalf.

Why Young Families Need Life Insurance – In case you’re still not convinced you need life insurance, Robert @ The College Investor offers even more reasons why it’s a good idea.

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FAQs

Does life insurance need change dramatically over one's life? ›

Because as you grow older, your responsibilities change. Your age, your health, your salary, your number of dependents, your financial obligations — all these will evolve over the years and decades to come, and each one plays a part in determining how much life insurance you should have.

How would having a family change your need for life insurance? ›

Having a child

When your children are young, having sufficient life insurance for each parent is critical. If you or your spouse were to suddenly die, life insurance limits need to be able to pay for daycare, help fund a college education and cover everyday living expenses.

Why do insurance needs change during different stages ages of life? ›

Life insurance policies can be used to pay for mortgage payments, debt payments, funeral expenses or to be used as replacement income to maintain a certain standard of living. However, the amount of life insurance needed can vary depending on the different responsibilities that come with each stage of life.

How much life insurance should a stay-at-home mom have? ›

Dave Ramsey recommends purchasing a policy between $250,000 and $400,000 to offset the increase in expenses your family would incur if you were to die prematurely. To protect your family, you can purchase a 15-20-year guaranteed level term plan that reflects the age of your children.

At what age should you stop paying life insurance? ›

Life insurance is no longer needed for many people once they reach their 60s or 70s. At this point they retire, their kids have grown up, and they've paid off their mortgage and other debts. However, others prefer to keep life insurance later in life to leave an inheritance and to pay off final expenses.

At what age does life insurance not make sense? ›

If retirement savings, investments and Social Security are enough to provide for final expenses and your survivors who still rely on your income—you may not need life insurance in your 60s. In some situations, however, having life insurance after 60 makes sense.

Why you don t need life insurance? ›

Not everyone needs life insurance. People who've accumulated enough wealth to cover their final expenses and who don't have dependents can usually forgo paying for life insurance.

What type of life insurance has no cash value? ›

Term life insurance

It is sometimes called “pure life insurance” because, unlike whole life insurance, there's no cash value to the policy. It's designed solely to give your beneficiaries a payout if you die during the term. Most individual term policies have level premiums, so you pay the same amount every month.

How much life insurance should a family have? ›

A common rule of thumb is at least 6% of your gross income plus 1% for each dependent. A stay-at-home parent should get enough life insurance to cover the costs incurred by the family if anything should happen to them.

Why is age important in life insurance? ›

When it comes to timing, the younger you are when you buy life insurance, the less expensive it will be. This is because at a younger age you'll qualify for lower premiums. And as you get older, you could develop health problems that make insurance more expensive or even disqualify you from purchasing a plan.

Does life insurance change with age? ›

Life insurance rates usually increase as you get older because advanced age typically corresponds to health complications or a shorter lifespan. This means insurance companies can generally expect a claim payout will come sooner for an older person and will often charge a higher premium to offset that risk.

What happens to life insurance as you age? ›

The rationale behind using age as a major factor in setting rates is straightforward. The older you are, the closer you are to reaching your life expectancy, which poses a higher risk to the insurance company of having to pay death benefits to your beneficiaries.

Should my stay-at-home wife have life insurance? ›

In a word, yes. Because couples might assume that only an income-earning parent needs life insurance, they often skip coverage for the stay-at-home parent, says Jason Hill, founder and president of Client Focused Advisors. It's a mistake to overlook the financial support a stay-at-home parent provides.

Can I get life insurance for my 80 year old mother? ›

Yes, with their consent. In order to take out a life insurance policy on a parent or anyone else, you'll need some of their information, their signature, and if you want to own the policy, proof that you will be financially impacted by their death.

How much life insurance should I get for my stay-at-home wife? ›

Sooner rather than later, you'll want to buy a policy that's 10–12 times their expected income. Then they'll be covered either way—whether they're doing the SAHP thing or going back to work. Since the cost of life insurance increases as you get older, don't wait until the SAHP returns to work to get their policy.

Does life insurance change? ›

The price may increase each time you renew the policy because it's based on factors like your age and health status. Decreasing term: Your premium payments decrease over time, which can result in a smaller death benefit.

Do life insurance policies change? ›

Universal Life Insurance

Under most contracts, premiums and/or death benefits can fluctuate at policyholder discretion. The policy stays in effect as long as the cash value is sufficient to cover the cost of insurance and loans can be taken against the cash value of the policy.

Does life insurance increase over time? ›

“Every birthday puts you one year closer to your life expectancy and thus, you are more expensive to insure,” says Huntley. He estimates that rates increase every year by 5% to 8% in your 40s, and by 9% to 12% each year if you're over age 50.

Does life insurance grow in value? ›

Generally, this cash value can grow quickly in the early years of the policy. Then in later years, the cash value accumulation slows as you grow older and more of the premium is applied to the cost of insurance.

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