Every guy wants to be the one about who a woman says: 'There is just something about him'. It has nothing to do with the car you drive or your bank balance. Women will remember the little things you do long after the date is over.
ETPanache tells you how to nail your recall value:
1. Get physical
But only just a little bit. Holding her hand to guide her out of the car or placing your hand on the small of her back before she sits down lets you make physical contact without it being too intimate. It may seem like a small gesture, but trust us, she will notice and remember.
2. Look at her
Whether you meet a girl at a party or out on a dinner date, make eye contact and hold it while you are talking. A lot of men are so preoccupied with what they are saying that they don't realise how they are saying it . Asking a woman if she would like dessert in an offhand manner is not going to score you any points. But, if you look at her and ask, she will feel that you are really listening to her, even when it is about something small. No creepy staring though — the key is to look away every five seconds.
3. Take a picture
In the day of cellphones, this has to be one of easiest ways to get her to remember you. Whether out on a roadtrip with scenic sights or at a restaurant eating a good meal, tell her you would like to take a picture. Having something that she can look at will help her recall the fun you had together. Also, sending her the picture is a good way to pitch for a second date.
4. Address her
Women love flattery — not the over-the-top-put-on kind though. They like to be complimented for their personality, and a great way to do that is to use their name often. "That was a great insight," sounds less personal than saying, "[Insert name] that was a great insight." But, you can't begin every sentence like that, so choose wisely.
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