Woman Refuses To Give Cousin Her Emergency Fund For His Irresponsible Actions (2024)

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24-year-old's money paranoia in tough times ๐Ÿ’ฐ Overcoming financial struggles during college, now thriving in stable job ๐Ÿ’ฐ Woman saves for emergencies, refuses to lend family irresponsible cousin Keeping emergency fund a secret is tough, but necessary ๐Ÿ‘ Saying 'no' to family when they ask for money ๐Ÿ’ธ๐Ÿ’” Boundary-setting queen shuts down entitled cousin's money grab ๐Ÿ’ธ Responsible woman stands her ground against entitled family member. Practical advice for a cousin in financial distress ๐Ÿ’ฐ Standing up for financial responsibility amidst family drama ๐Ÿคท Standing up for myself against family backlash, AITA thread Woman refuses to give her cousin her emergency fund ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ NTA. Family feels entitled to emergency fund for cousin's lack of planning. Commenters defend OP's decision not to give in to family pressure. Don't let guilt-tripping family members exploit you. Stand your ground ๐Ÿ‘ OP is NTA as cousin can get a job to start saving ๐Ÿ’ฐ Don't let guilt make you give him your emergency fund. NTA ๐Ÿ˜Ž NTA commenter surprised by family's lack of responsibility towards cousin. Don't let family pressure you into irresponsible decisions ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ Commenter regrets not responding with a witty comeback ๐Ÿ˜… Cousin hit a trifecta! NTA, not your responsibility ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ Your money, your rules. NTA ๐Ÿ‘ Cousin's irresponsibility puts financial burden on OP. NTA ๐Ÿ‘ Lesson learned: don't dictate others' choices, but keep your savings ๐Ÿ’ฐ ๐Ÿ‘๐ŸผGreat idea to protect emergency fund from entitled family members. Family isn't always an emergency fund. ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ Grown man asks for emergency fund? NTA shuts him down ๐Ÿ˜‚ Keep your emergency fund a secret ๐Ÿ‘‡. NTA for not sharing. NTA, it's your money, not the family "emergency" fund. ๐Ÿ’ฐ Protect your hard-earned money ๐Ÿ’ฐ NTA wins this one. Protect your emergency fund ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฆ and stay cautious ๐Ÿ˜” Don't let anyone guilt you into giving away your hard-earned money ๐Ÿ’ฐ Setting boundaries is important. ๐Ÿ’ช NTA for standing your ground. Your emergency fund, your decision. NTA ๐Ÿ‘ Commenter disagrees with cousin's request for irresponsible behavior, supports poster. ๐Ÿ™Œ Your money, your choice. Family shouldn't guilt you. ๐Ÿ’ธ Family isn't entitled to your money. Save for emergencies! ๐Ÿค‘ Keep your emergency fund safe and ignore the noise. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’ฐ Protect your emergency fund like a boss ๐Ÿ’ช Your money, your rules. ๐Ÿ’ฐ Don't let someone else's irresponsibility drag you down. Stand your ground and keep your emergency fund safe! ๐Ÿ’ฐ Protect your emergency fund! ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ NTA made the right choice. Stand your ground! ๐Ÿ’ช Your emergency fund is for YOU. Don't let family guilt you into paying for their mistakes ๐Ÿ’ฐ No loan for entitled cousin. NTA made the wise decision ๐Ÿ‘ Laugh in their face and don't give in. NTA ๐Ÿ˜‚ NTA. Cousin should find a job instead of mooching off you. Emergency fund is for emergencies only. NTA for not sharing. NTA - Keep your emergency fund for YOUR emergencies ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ NTA! ๐Ÿ’ช Stick to your guns and don't give in ๐Ÿ‘ Don't let others guilt-trip you into giving away your savings ๐Ÿ’ฐ Your emergency fund is not a bank account ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’ธ #NTA Don't let others' irresponsibility affect your emergency funds! ๐Ÿ’ฐ Religious double standards? ๐Ÿ‘€ NTA for keeping your emergency fund. ๐Ÿ‘ Right on! OP stands their ground against entitled cousin. Standing up for oneself and saying no to family ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ Protect your savings! ๐Ÿ’ฐ NTA for saying no. Defending her emergency fund, user faces religious accusations ๐Ÿ™„ Don't enable their irresponsible behavior. Suggest seeking government assistance or adoption. Prioritize yourself and your future, not someone else's irresponsibility ๐Ÿ’ฐ
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A woman saved up an emergency fund to protect herself in case of unexpected events. Her cousin, who has a child and has no stable source of income, asked her to give him her emergency fund. She refused, and he spread lies about her to the family. Now, she's being harassed and called a godless b*tch. Is she in the wrong for keeping her savings to protect herself, or is her cousin entitled to her money?Readon to find out.

24-year-old's money paranoia in tough times ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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Keeping emergency fund a secret is tough, but necessary ๐Ÿ‘

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Saying 'no' to family when they ask for money ๐Ÿ’ธ๐Ÿ’”

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Boundary-setting queen shuts down entitled cousin's money grab ๐Ÿ’ธ

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Responsible woman stands her ground against entitled family member.

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Practical advice for a cousin in financial distress ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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Standing up for myself against family backlash, AITA thread

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Woman refuses to give her cousin her emergency fund ๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ

Money can be a touchy subject, especially when it comes to family. One woman found herself in a difficult situation when her cousin asked for her emergency fund to help with his irresponsible actions. Despite being called a godless b*tch by some family members, she stands by her decision to keep her savings. In this post, we'll dive into the woman's story and explore the dynamics of family and finances. We'll also look closely at the comments and reactions to her situation. So buckle up and prepare to ride through family drama and financial responsibility.

NTA. Family feels entitled to emergency fund for cousin's lack of planning.

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llamalei | llamalei

Commenters defend OP's decision not to give in to family pressure.

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CaroSCP | CaroSCP

Don't let guilt-tripping family members exploit you. Stand your ground ๐Ÿ‘

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OP is NTA as cousin can get a job to start saving ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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smeghead9916 | smeghead9916

Don't let guilt make you give him your emergency fund. NTA ๐Ÿ˜Ž

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carbinePRO | carbinePRO

NTA commenter surprised by family's lack of responsibility towards cousin.

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Gypsy-Nyx | Gypsy-Nyx

Don't let family pressure you into irresponsible decisions ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ

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Studoku | Studoku

Commenter regrets not responding with a witty comeback ๐Ÿ˜…

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Dropitlikeitscold555 | Dropitlikeitscold555

Cousin hit a trifecta! NTA, not your responsibility ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ

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Management-Late | Management-Late

Your money, your rules. NTA ๐Ÿ‘

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Informal-Worth-2451 | Informal-Worth-2451

Cousin's irresponsibility puts financial burden on OP. NTA ๐Ÿ‘

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Bruiscear | Bruiscear

Lesson learned: don't dictate others' choices, but keep your savings ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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ResoluteMuse | ResoluteMuse

๐Ÿ‘๐ŸผGreat idea to protect emergency fund from entitled family members.

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jaimystery | jaimystery

Family isn't always an emergency fund. ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ

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RoyallyOakie | RoyallyOakie

Grown man asks for emergency fund? NTA shuts him down ๐Ÿ˜‚

Keep your emergency fund a secret ๐Ÿ‘‡. NTA for not sharing.

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NTA, it's your money, not the family "emergency" fund. ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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Protect your hard-earned money ๐Ÿ’ฐ NTA wins this one.

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SpookyMamma | SpookyMamma

Protect your emergency fund ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿฆ and stay cautious ๐Ÿ˜”

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LocaCola1997 | LocaCola1997

Don't let anyone guilt you into giving away your hard-earned money ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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Passivewalnut | Passivewalnut

Setting boundaries is important. ๐Ÿ’ช NTA for standing your ground.

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Your emergency fund, your decision. NTA ๐Ÿ‘

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CatVinegar | CatVinegar

Commenter disagrees with cousin's request for irresponsible behavior, supports poster. ๐Ÿ™Œ

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Local-Day1602 | Local-Day1602

Your money, your choice. Family shouldn't guilt you. ๐Ÿ’ธ

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oy-c*nt- | oy-c*nt-

Family isn't entitled to your money. Save for emergencies! ๐Ÿค‘

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Safe_Vegetable6036 | Safe_Vegetable6036

Keep your emergency fund safe and ignore the noise. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ’ฐ

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NCKALA | NCKALA

Protect your emergency fund like a boss ๐Ÿ’ช

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Jocelyn-1973 | Jocelyn-1973

Your money, your rules. ๐Ÿ’ฐ Don't let someone else's irresponsibility drag you down.

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alyanm | alyanm

Stand your ground and keep your emergency fund safe! ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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cassowary32 | cassowary32

Protect your emergency fund! ๐Ÿ›ก๏ธ NTA made the right choice.

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WavesnMountains | WavesnMountains

Stand your ground! ๐Ÿ’ช Your emergency fund is for YOU.

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PleaseCoffeeMe | PleaseCoffeeMe

Don't let family guilt you into paying for their mistakes ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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ShadyVermin | ShadyVermin

No loan for entitled cousin. NTA made the wise decision ๐Ÿ‘

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Awhkm | Awhkm

Laugh in their face and don't give in. NTA ๐Ÿ˜‚

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NTA. Cousin should find a job instead of mooching off you.

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PixiFrizzle | PixiFrizzle

Emergency fund is for emergencies only. NTA for not sharing.

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kfrostborne | kfrostborne

NTA - Keep your emergency fund for YOUR emergencies ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’โ€โ™€๏ธ

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Bear_Cub_15 | Bear_Cub_15

NTA! ๐Ÿ’ช Stick to your guns and don't give in ๐Ÿ‘

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FunStorm6487 | FunStorm6487

Don't let others guilt-trip you into giving away your savings ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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FloatingPencil | FloatingPencil

Your emergency fund is not a bank account ๐Ÿ’ฐ๐Ÿ’ธ #NTA

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mdthomas | mdthomas

Don't let others' irresponsibility affect your emergency funds! ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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vrindumb | vrindumb

Religious double standards? ๐Ÿ‘€ NTA for keeping your emergency fund.

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ashre9 | ashre9

๐Ÿ‘ Right on! OP stands their ground against entitled cousin.

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Pinkie_Flamingo | Pinkie_Flamingo

Standing up for oneself and saying no to family ๐Ÿ™…โ€โ™€๏ธ

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Thedarkfic | Thedarkfic

Protect your savings! ๐Ÿ’ฐ NTA for saying no.

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AryaSilverStone | AryaSilverStone

Defending her emergency fund, user faces religious accusations ๐Ÿ™„

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ExaminationNo2861 | ExaminationNo2861

Don't enable their irresponsible behavior. Suggest seeking government assistance or adoption.

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NoContribution9322 | NoContribution9322

Prioritize yourself and your future, not someone else's irresponsibility ๐Ÿ’ฐ

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Kephri1337 | Kephri1337

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