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We cannot always know what another person has in mind, especially if they purposely do not share or mislead us. Apparently, sometimes it has to do with good intentions and a wish to keep a surprise, which, of course, works best with a happy ending.
So it happened to this Redditor whose story started with a disagreement with her boyfriend about putting him on the title of her house and making him a beneficiary without getting married as she wanted. And ended up… (almost) completely elsewhere.
A woman disagreed with her boyfriend about adding him as her beneficiary; however, the conflict had an unexpected resolution
Image credits: Caio (not the actual photo)
The man seemingly didn’t want to get married and the woman agreed to take marriage off the table even though she wanted it
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Sherman Von Gee Sherman Von Gee Community Member Follow
Whoa. This did not go how I expected. But idk.. maybe I'm just an untrusting person.. but something smells fishy. I hope that I'm just being paranoid bc if this is legit then that's beautiful. But idk...
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Lorraine Lorraine Community Member Follow
That's why he was so adamant on showing this was planned before their argument. This even has happened in TV shows with the guy pretending to hate marriage so the gf doesn't see it coming.
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TheBlueBitterfly TheBlueBitterfly Community Member Follow
So now everyone is screaming "red flag" when he had the ring purchased and everything planned BEFORE their "fight" about all this? 🤨 I'm seriously confused. Honestly I think the whole reason he was upset over her comments was because it derailed his planned proposal. If he proposed after she made a big deal about how she'd never list him as a beneficiary, it makes him look bad. Hence why the receipt. The only way he could say "I was already planning on proposing long before any of this, but now you're making me look suspicious!" All because he wanted to have a romantic autumn proposal.. 🤦♀️
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Hokuloa Hokuloa Community Member Follow
Yeah, that isn’t right. He’s paying 1/3 of the mortgage as rent with no other major investment and expects to be a beneficiary on insurance and likely the house. Now he proposes? Sounds super suspect. She better get a rock solid prenup and will prepared. Hopefully he’s just an immature idiot, but it’s sounds like she’s getting at least a bit used over the imbalance in their commitment.
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yohyunz yohyunz Community Member Follow
It was in the story that he bought the ring before all of this happened.
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Sherman Von Gee Sherman Von Gee Community Member Follow
Whoa. This did not go how I expected. But idk.. maybe I'm just an untrusting person.. but something smells fishy. I hope that I'm just being paranoid bc if this is legit then that's beautiful. But idk...
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Lorraine Lorraine Community Member Follow
That's why he was so adamant on showing this was planned before their argument. This even has happened in TV shows with the guy pretending to hate marriage so the gf doesn't see it coming.
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TheBlueBitterfly TheBlueBitterfly Community Member Follow
So now everyone is screaming "red flag" when he had the ring purchased and everything planned BEFORE their "fight" about all this? 🤨 I'm seriously confused. Honestly I think the whole reason he was upset over her comments was because it derailed his planned proposal. If he proposed after she made a big deal about how she'd never list him as a beneficiary, it makes him look bad. Hence why the receipt. The only way he could say "I was already planning on proposing long before any of this, but now you're making me look suspicious!" All because he wanted to have a romantic autumn proposal.. 🤦♀️
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Hokuloa Hokuloa Community Member Follow
Yeah, that isn’t right. He’s paying 1/3 of the mortgage as rent with no other major investment and expects to be a beneficiary on insurance and likely the house. Now he proposes? Sounds super suspect. She better get a rock solid prenup and will prepared. Hopefully he’s just an immature idiot, but it’s sounds like she’s getting at least a bit used over the imbalance in their commitment.
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yohyunz yohyunz Community Member Follow
It was in the story that he bought the ring before all of this happened.
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