Sharing a Joint Account with Adult Children (2024)

If you have young adult children starting out on their own or are the adult child of an elderly parent, you may be considering a joint checking account to help them monetarily.After all, you want to take care of your family—emotionally, physically and, often, financially.

A joint checking or savings account is one shared by two or more people. And it’s easy to see how it how it might help families sharing financial responsibilities. (Other types of accounts can also be operated jointly.)

“If relatives have frequent hospital stays or periods of incapacitation, a joint checking account can let you pay the bills and make sure everything keeps going smoothly,” says T. Eric Reich, CIMA, CFP, a financial advisor and president of Reich Asset Management in New Jersey. Reich says he typically sees clients consider joint bank accounts when they are trying to help elderly relatives.

Another advantage relates to survivorship. Typically when someone dies, their assets are frozen throughout the probate process, but “in a joint situation, only half of the joint account is frozen,” Reich notes. “You still have access to money to be able to help pay some of their expenses, so it’s not coming out of your own pocket while you’re waiting to get the estate settled.”

The major drawbacks of a joint checking account, Reich says, are all related to a common misunderstanding.“A lot of people think a joint checking account is 50/50,” Reich notes, “but really it’s 100/100.”

That means that since both people have full rights to the money, it’s perfectly legal for either party to withdraw all the money from the joint account at any time. Aside from the basic need to trust your cosigner, this creates other considerations:

Pros:

Estate planning. As noted above, bypassing the will and probate can be helpful in managing immediate expenses during an estate settlement. But if you have multiple heirs, take that into comnsideration during estate planning. Even if a will stipulates that an inheritance be split evenly among four children, for example, all of the money in a joint account will go to the one child on the bank account, despite the will’s directive. That might create complication or strife in the family.

Financial Education. If you’re the parent of a young adult child, you can help them make wise financial choices by monitoring the account. It’s possible to teach your kids wise financial habits when they’ve just started adulthood without being overbearing or paying for their lives entirely.

Cons:

Creditors. If either person who holds a joint account owes money—whether because of a car accident, a divorce, a legal action or other reasons—all the funds in the joint account are subject to creditors. This can be a particular issue for young adult children who haven’t yet proven themselves financially responsible or those who are compulsive spenders.

Financial aid. The assets in a joint checking account will count for more in the financial aid calculations for a college student than if the assets were held in a parent’s non-joint account.

Divorce. Similar to the financial aid situation, if either the adult child or parent on the account divorces their partner, then the money could be listed as an asset.

Elder Abuse. As of 2020, the CDC estimates about 1 in 10 people aged 60 and older experience elder abuse. About 90% of abusers are family members and 2/3 of perpetrators are adult children or spouses. A joint bank account could make the situation worse for an elderly parent. Visit the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services for more information on identifying and reporting elder abuse.

Even with the potential drawbacks, people utilize joint bank accounts because they need a way to connect their finances with their family members. But there are alternatives. An adult child can establish their own bank account, for example, and you can transfer money into the account as needed, Reich says.

For elderly parents, you could establish what is known as a convenience account. This type of account allows you to sign checks for the account holder, but nothing more, and you have no legal rights to the account.

Another option that might help an elderly relative is to employ a personal daily money manager, Reich suggests. That individual will work with an elderly relative to help pay bills or liase with insurance companies if they are no longer able to do so on their own. The Association of Daily Money Managers can help you locate someone locally.

You might also consider getting a signed power of attorney from your elderly parent or other relative, as that documentation gives you the legal right to take over all essential financial activities—not just the joint bank account—if your family member becomes incapacitated.

While taking care of your loved ones is essential, make sure you analyze all the complications and drawbacks of a joint bank account so you can make the right decision for you and your family.

Marcia Lerner lives in Brooklyn, New York, and writes about finance, health care and children's literature. Her articles and reviews have appeared in the New York Times and Proto magazine as well as many financial websites and magazines.

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Sharing a Joint Account with Adult Children (2024)

FAQs

Sharing a Joint Account with Adult Children? ›

The solution is simple: They can add their adult son or daughter as a joint owner of their bank account. Setting up a joint account is easy and free. You don't need an attorney. By having your adult child fill out a signature card at the bank, you grant the joint owner immediate access to all the cash in your account.

Should you have a joint bank account with an elderly parent? ›

One of the most obvious benefits to opening a joint account with your aging parent is that you can help them manage their finances to make sure bills are paid on time if they start to become forgetful or begin to experience memory issues or issues with impulsivity.

Can I have a joint account with my elderly parents? ›

To have a joint bank account, your parent could add you as a joint owner to an existing account. Or, you could open a new account together. To do this, you both would need to provide identification and some information to set up the new account.

Can I have a joint checking account with my son? ›

What you need to have to open a joint account with your child: Your child's name, birthdate and social security number. Your picture identification, such as a driver's license or passport. Your social security number.

Who owns the money in a joint bank account? ›

The money in joint accounts belongs to both owners. Either person can withdraw or spend the money at will — even if they weren't the one to deposit the funds. The bank makes no distinction between money deposited by one person or the other, making a joint account useful for handling shared expenses.

What are the pitfalls of joint bank accounts? ›

You'll lose some privacy. All other account holders will be able to see what you're spending money on. If one of the account holders takes money out of the joint account, there aren't many options for getting it back. If the account goes overdrawn, each joint account holder is responsible for the whole amount owed.

How do I protect my elderly parents bank account? ›

Power of Attorney

It means that you can deposit, withdraw, pay bills, and manage other assets. Additionally, a power of attorney allows you to sell assets and access parents' bank accounts. For this, you need a long-term power of attorney that remains valid even if the parent becomes incapacitated.

What happens to a joint checking account when one owner dies? ›

Most joint bank accounts include automatic rights of survivorship, which means that after one account signer dies, the remaining signer (or signers) retain ownership of the money in the account. The surviving primary account owner can continue using the account, and the money in it, without any interruptions.

Is it better to be a joint owner or beneficiary? ›

Each owner can transfer money, create goals, change allocations, and more. Upon the death of one of the joint account owners, the assets are transferred to the surviving account owner. On the other hand, a beneficiary does not have access, control, or ownership over the account while the account owner is alive.

Should I put my son on my bank account? ›

You could add them as an agent under a power of attorney or add them as a designated beneficiary to that account and that is something different; but making a child a joint owner on a bank account is almost never a good idea.

Are joint bank accounts frozen when someone dies? ›

The account is not “frozen” after the death and they do not need a grant of probate or any authority from the personal representatives to access it. You should, however, tell the bank about the death of the other account holder.

Is putting money in a joint account considered a gift? ›

Simply moving money to a joint account you have with your son is not considered a gift by the IRS.

Is a joint bank account considered inheritance? ›

It depends on the account agreement and state law. Broadly speaking, if the account has what is termed the “right of survivorship,” all the funds pass directly to the surviving owner. If not, the share of the account belonging to the deceased owner is distributed through his or her estate.

What happens if a joint bank account holder gets dementia? ›

Joint accounts may also provide administrative support for individuals being cared for. However, once the bank learns that one of the account holders has lost capacity, they will usually freeze the account irrespective of it being held in joint names.

Can I add my daughter's name to my bank account? ›

This can be done either by having an estate planning attorney draft a power of attorney document or by contacting the financial institution where the account is held. Most institutions allow an account owner to grant another individual full or limited authorization using the firm's own form.

What are the rules for joint bank accounts? ›

Each co-owner of a joint account is insured up to $250,000 for the combined amount of his or her interests in all joint accounts at the same IDI. In determining a co-owner's interest in a joint account, the FDIC assumes each co-owner is an equal owner unless the IDI records clearly indicate otherwise.

Why a joint account is a bad idea? ›

One spouse's poor credit likely won't impact the other, but if you open a joint account, it will appear on both of your credit reports, which could affect any joint applications for a mortgage or other loan. A lender would co-score both spouses, which may mean taking the lowest or median credit score, Pareto explains.

What is the risk of joint account? ›

Risk #1: Unintended inheritance

In most standard joint accounts, if one owner dies, the joint owner will take ownership of the assets in the account, irrespective of what the deceased's estate plan directs. So in the case of an older adult and his or her adult child, this could become problematic.

Is it better to have a joint account or separate accounts? ›

Financial experts won't deny that joint accounts can have benefits for a couple, but for some experts those benefits can be maintained even with separate accounts. Plus, separate accounts may prevent uncertainties about each other's spending habits that occur with a joint account.

Should I separate my bank account from my parents? ›

Banking on your own

Once you reach adulthood, it's in your best interest to get your own account that's exclusively yours. You'll avoid the possible risks of a joint account, and you'll be taking an important step towards financial independence.

What is the best way to protect an elderly parents assets? ›

Set Up a Living Trust

A living trust is a legal documentation of how to handle your parents' finances and assets. A living trust for elderly parents is often set up to help them manage their money as they become older, or when their health declines. Remember, a trust does not replace a will.

Are joint accounts with parents tax implications? ›

All owners of a joint account pay taxes on it. If the joint account earns interest, you may be held liable for the income produced on the account in proportion to your ownership share. Also any withdrawals exceeding $14,000 per year by a joint account holder (other than your spouse) may be treated as a gift by the IRS.

Does a joint bank account automatically go to the survivor? ›

The majority of banks set up joint accounts as “Joint With Rights of Survivorship” (JWROS) by default. This type of account ownership generally states that upon the death of either of the owners, the assets will automatically transfer to the surviving owner.

Can I transfer money from a joint account to an individual account? ›

How do you transfer money from a joint account to an individual account? Many banks and credit unions offer online transfers from joint to individual accounts if both accounts are at the same bank.

Who owns a joint checking account? ›

A joint owner or co-owner means that both owners have the same access to the account. As an owner of the account, both co-owners can deposit, withdraw, or close the account. You most likely want to reserve this for someone with whom you already have a financial relationship, such as a family member.

What is a disadvantage of joint ownership? ›

Key Takeaways. Some of the main benefits of joint tenancy include avoiding probate courts, sharing responsibility, and maintaining continuity. The primary pitfalls are the need for agreement, the potential for assets to be frozen, and loss of control over the distribution of assets after death.

Do joint accounts avoid inheritance tax? ›

In the US, there is no inheritance tax but there is estate tax. Joint bank accounts are subject to estate tax if the total value of the gross estate of the deceased bank account owner is above the federal and state exemptions.

Who is the best person to name as beneficiary? ›

Immediate family as beneficiaries

Anyone who will suffer financially by your loss is likely your first choice for a beneficiary. You can usually split the benefit among multiple beneficiaries as long as the total percentage of the proceeds equal 100 percent.

Should I have a joint account with my child? ›

Risk of Creditors & Divorce

A joint account holder can access the account and withdraw 100% of the funds. This leaves the assets open to a child's bad judgment. Even when a child can be trusted completely, the account is subject to their creditors. A sudden lawsuit or a divorce opens the account up to risk.

Can I put my son and daughter on my bank account? ›

When you put your adult child on your account, they become a co-owner of the account. They can write checks off that account, make deposits and withdrawals without any restrictions or even having to consult you.

Is adding a child to a bank account a gift tax? ›

Adding your child to an account or deed may constitute a gift requiring the filing of a gift tax return with the IRS. Once a child is added to your bank account, he or she can withdraw some or all of the account or can try to sell or mortgage his or her share of the house.

Can you have a joint bank account with a parent? ›

Even if the parent has made a Will that stipulates that the money in the joint bank account should be shared among three children, the child who is co-owner of the account is perfectly entitled to keep it all. If they do, disputes among your children are sure to happen.

What happens to a joint bank account when a parent dies? ›

Most joint bank accounts include automatic rights of survivorship, which means that after one account signer dies, the remaining signer (or signers) retain ownership of the money in the account. The surviving primary account owner can continue using the account, and the money in it, without any interruptions.

Do joint accounts get frozen when someone dies? ›

The account is not “frozen” after the death and they do not need a grant of probate or any authority from the personal representatives to access it. You should, however, tell the bank about the death of the other account holder.

Should I add my daughter to my bank account? ›

A better and safer option is to add your child as the Power of Attorney (POA) to handle your financial affairs. With a power of attorney, you remain the owner of the account while the adult child acts as the agent to make financial decisions on your behalf. There are two different types of POAs.

What happens when someone dies and you have a joint account? ›

Joint bank accounts

If one dies, all the money will go to the surviving partner without the need for probate or letters of administration. The bank may need the see the death certificate in order to transfer the money to the other joint owner.

Does it matter who is primary on a joint account? ›

All joint bank accounts have two or more owners. Each owner has the full right to withdraw, deposit, and otherwise manage the account's funds. While some banks may label one person as the primary account holder, that doesn't change the fact everyone owns everything—together.

Can one person remove all the money in a joint account? ›

Either person on the joint account generally has the right to move funds or close the account. Check your account agreement to see if this is the case for your account. State law may also provide you some protection in this situation.

Are joint accounts subject to inheritance tax? ›

Joint Bank Accounts Are Considered Part of an Individual's Estate: Joint bank accounts are considered part of an individual's estate for Inheritance Tax purposes. This means that the value of a joint bank account will be included in the value of an individual's estate when calculating Inheritance Tax.

Is a joint owner on a bank account the same as a beneficiary? ›

Each owner can transfer money, create goals, change allocations, and more. Upon the death of one of the joint account owners, the assets are transferred to the surviving account owner. On the other hand, a beneficiary does not have access, control, or ownership over the account while the account owner is alive.

How do I get out of a joint bank account with a parent? ›

The CFPB says that under state law or terms of an account, you usually cannot remove the joint account holder without the consent of the other person. One advantage to having a joint account at the same bank as your parents is the ease with which they could transfer money from their account to yours.

What happens if you have more than 250 000 in bank? ›

Bottom line. Any individual or entity that has more than $250,000 in deposits at an FDIC-insured bank should see to it that all monies are federally insured. It's not only diligent savers and high-net-worth individuals who might need extra FDIC coverage.

Can you close a joint bank account without both signatures? ›

Can one party with a joint bank account close the account? Generally, no. Banks require that both account holders consent to closing the account. It may be possible in some cases for one account holder to remove themselves from the account, though, without the explicit consent of both parties.

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