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What happens when the dream of owning your own home collides with the reality of parental obligation? One woman found herself at the crossroads of love and financial responsibility, as her partner's parents asked them to take over their mortgage. This tale of love, dreams, and mortgages is a rollercoaster of emotions. Let's delve into the story and see how it unfolded. π’π
A Love Story Begins π₯°
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The Dilemma π€
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Heartbreak π
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The Unwanted Mortgage π¦
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The Old House ποΈ
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The Decision π―
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The Breakup π
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The Love-Mortgage Rollercoaster: A Recap π’
In this whirlwind of a story, our heroine finds herself torn between her dreams of owning a home with her partner and the unexpected request from his parents to take over their mortgage. Despite her love for her partner, she finds herself unable to accept living in a house that wouldn't feel like their own. The situation escalates, leading to heartbreak and the eventual end of their relationship. A tale of love, dreams, and mortgages, it's a stark reminder of the complexities of life and relationships. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... πΏ
π© Don't tie the knot! Protect your finances and happiness. π
nebunala4328 | nebunala4328
Mortgage clause: Change ownership, pay up! πΈ
requiem4meme | requiem4meme
Trust your gut and avoid being buried next to Fluffy.
highexplosive | highexplosive
NTA: You're just renting their home, not buying your own π
Algebralovr | Algebralovr
NTA. Don't let them make you pay for their dreams. π
ClawedRavenesque | ClawedRavenesque
Smart solution: Have parents rent it out for mortgage + 10% π
revibing | revibing
Financial abuse: Are you trapped paying for someone else's house? π
txmoonpie1 | txmoonpie1
A blunt response shuts down the conversation. π ββοΈ
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NTA. Don't pay for their bad financial decision. πΈ
artemis1860 | artemis1860
Taking on all the expenses for in-laws? Hard pass! NTA π
Free-Promotion-8106 | Free-Promotion-8106
π© Don't do it! So many red flags! #NTA
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NTA...but the parents are. Draw a hard line with your partner. π
joes_editorialboard | joes_editorialboard
π« NTA: Don't buy them a vacation home, stand your ground!
ta_probably_mostly | ta_probably_mostly
NTA. Selfish in-laws and a house that's not really yours. π
HoneyMCMLXXIII | HoneyMCMLXXIII
Zoxgg's mysterious comment leaves everyone intrigued. π€
pashminamina | pashminamina
Don't let love blind you. Protect yourself from financial entanglement.
mxrichar | mxrichar
Stand your ground! π‘οΈ Let them know it's a deal breaker.
rubberman5959 | rubberman5959
Don't do it! π±
whitnet12 | whitnet12
Navigating the minefield of living with in-laws π£
virtualmaxk | virtualmaxk
Living with his parents? Paying for everything? NO NO NO!
EvulRabbit | EvulRabbit
NTA, your partner's lack of understanding is a dealbreaker π
rawsugar87 | rawsugar87
Taking over a mortgage with no ownership? Bad deal! π€
Katy_moxie | Katy_moxie
NTA. Living with in-laws for half the year? No way! π
wigglywriggler | wigglywriggler
Stand your ground! π« Don't let his parents ruin your future!
kdkincaid | kdkincaid
π€ A couple wants someone else to pay their mortgage? NTA
flowers4u | flowers4u
Beware! Love, mortgages, and broken dreams can be a trap! π±
SergiusMagnificus | SergiusMagnificus
Betrayed by family in a similar situation, don't trust anyone! π€―
ofnovalue | ofnovalue
Protect your investment! Get on the house title with lawyer's help! βοΈ
paidinpork | paidinpork
Taking over ownership and occasional visits? Not the a**hole!
techieguyjames | techieguyjames
A bad deal that's hard to believe. Definitely not the a**hole.
zalachenko123 | zalachenko123
Not the a**hole, but what's the dilemma? π
TheDoNothings | TheDoNothings
Living with in-laws? π€ Maybe rethink that vacation house π‘
TheHiddenMessenger | TheHiddenMessenger
Don't be a**hole landlord! Avoid the mortgage trap. π«π
heatherleanne | heatherleanne
Don't take over the mortgage! NTA. It's a terrible deal π‘
YunaSakura | YunaSakura
Don't pay their mortgage! Save for your own dream home! π
fatfarko69 | fatfarko69
Agreement is key in a partnership. π
FairyFartDaydreams | FairyFartDaydreams
π NTA! Don't let them guilt you into buying their house! π
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Protect your investment! Consult a lawyer and secure your future.
sparklesparkle5 | sparklesparkle5
π« NTA - DON'T DO IT! A cautionary tale of living with in-laws
Alorienn | Alorienn
NTA. Don't do it! No equity, no privacy, no return.
lallaw | lallaw
NTA. Don't do this. π«
Violet351 | Violet351
Deal breaker? NTA, let your SO know how you feel!
TXcacher | TXcacher
NTA. Unreasonable? Let's dive into this couple's dilemma! π
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Parents expect couple to fund their retirement? NTA, stand firm! π‘
Infraggable_Krunk | Infraggable_Krunk
π« Don't let others control your financial future. NTA!
capricorn40 | capricorn40
Follow your instincts! Talk to a banker for legal advice! πͺ
Jaye1013 | Jaye1013
NTA. Did they really expect to live rent-free? π
pixp85 | pixp85
You're not responsible for their financial mistakes. NTA! βοΈ
Shiniest_Rock | Shiniest_Rock
No equity, living with in-laws? Lose-lose scenario. NTA! π
anathema_deviced | anathema_deviced
π© Don't pay someone else's mortgage without legal protection! π«
molly_menace | molly_menace
Stand your ground! You have the right to live freely. πͺ NTA
JTB_JTM | JTB_JTM
Hellll no! You're definitely not the a**hole here! π€
NakedAndAfraidFan | NakedAndAfraidFan
Dump him! π Find a cheaper and easier boyfriend! π
jpcher01 | jpcher01
NTA. Renting their housemates' home? Rethink the relationship. π€
therapy_works | therapy_works
Moving in with in-laws? Expect to be maid and cook! π¬
LarryMcFlinigan | LarryMcFlinigan
NTA. Surround yourself with better people! π€¦ββοΈ
swedishchef2014 | swedishchef2014
NTA. Clear advice on buying a house with ambiguous partner.
Muncie4 | Muncie4
Don't get burned trying to save their home. NTA.
NotYourMommyDear | NotYourMommyDear
Don't do it! Start your own life in your own house π
luckydidi18 | luckydidi18
Partner not ready to be a grown up. NTA! π
abjectobsolescence | abjectobsolescence
Be honest with your partner about your dreams and concerns. π
BeachMom2007 | BeachMom2007
NTA, beware of paying for a home you don't own π¨
DeepTie6252 | DeepTie6252
NTA: Don't take over their mortgage. Stand up for yourself! πͺ
Echo-Alexa | Echo-Alexa
Avoid this financial nightmare! NTA, stay out of it.
HRHArgyll | HRHArgyll
NTA: Don't take over the mortgage, it's a potential financial disaster π¬
SmileyFaceLols | SmileyFaceLols
NTA: Stand your ground! Don't let them ruin your dreams! π
KarenJoanneO | KarenJoanneO
Don't let entitled partners run you over, you deserve better! π«π
AdeptHumor9203 | AdeptHumor9203
Don't agree to this. You're not the a**hole.
dragondude101 | dragondude101
You're not responsible for this. Mortgage = "Death-pact" in French π±
Davion213 | Davion213
NTA - Couple's mortgage dilemma leads to underwater retirement home π
dragon34 | dragon34
Stand your ground and end the relationship. No compromise here. π
Superlurker218 | Superlurker218
π€ Suspicion arises: Is his parents' disapproval intentional?
Luxx00476 | Luxx00476
Engaging compromise: Consider buying a house with an attached apartment. πΆπ»
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π Splitting up over in-laws? That's a tough mortgage decision.
BreqsCousin | BreqsCousin
Don't take over the mortgage! Your life, your decisions! π‘
Sofiwyn | Sofiwyn
Financial abuse? This couple's dilemma is heartbreaking. π
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NTA - Don't take over their mortgage, it's not your responsibility π‘
Justinaroni | Justinaroni
Don't let anyone take away your choices and dreams π
6soulglitch | 6soulglitch
Snowbirds causing trouble? This commenter says NTA. π΄
possiblycrazy79 | possiblycrazy79
π« Don't do it! His parents are so selfish!
Nomegusta111 | Nomegusta111
NTA. Run away! Don't get trapped in a controlling mortgage nightmare! π±
calsey16 | calsey16
NTA - Buy your own home and let him handle his parents mortgage. πͺ
Disastrous_Ad_8561 | Disastrous_Ad_8561
Don't take over the mortgage! Trust me, it's a trap π¬
brotogeris1 | brotogeris1
Building your own home will create new memories and independence! π‘
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NTA. Partner's parents taking advantage. Make or break relationship. π π
Practical-Big7550 | Practical-Big7550
Protect yourself from a lifetime of abuse. ππ°
JaneAustenKicksAss | JaneAustenKicksAss
OP stands their ground against unfair mortgage situation. Stay strong! π
AuricAmphora | AuricAmphora
π You're NTA! Don't settle for a lifetime of dependence!
Matchtuff | Matchtuff
Couple's dilemma: Parents want vacation home in 'your' house π±
Rural_Bedbug | Rural_Bedbug