This article was co-authored by Michelle Jacoby. Michelle Jacoby is a Matchmaker, Dating Coach, and the Founder and CEO of DC Matchmaking, a privately owned, boutique matchmaking company based in Washington, DC, Maryland, and Virginia. She is also the Co-Founder of The Matchmakers Alliance, an international industry organization for matchmakers. With over 12 years of experience, Michelle specializes in one-on-one matchmaking and group coaching to help singles find healthy, lasting relationships. She has been featured in several media publications such as The Washington Post, Self, and NPR. Michelle holds a BA in Psychology from George Washington University. She is also a Certified Matchmaker from The Matchmakers Institute as well as a Certified Body Language Expert from The Body Language Institute. This article has been viewed 728,555 times.
According to Steve Harvey, if you provide a man with these three things in a relationship, he won't leave: support, loyalty, and intimacy. Harvey says that men may hide behind their macho demeanors, but in the end they just want to feel special.
“I love you a lot.”“You are so smart.”“Rip my clothes off.” Although I'm fairly certain that most men I know would enjoy hearing any of these three four-word sentences from a spouse, there is another sentiment that trumps all of these: “You make me happy.”
Build him up by giving him compliments that make him feel good about himself, or let him be chivalrous by holding the door open for you. When you boost his ego, he'll want to spend more time around you. Keep flirting with him. Flirting doesn't have to stop just because you start dating.
Uniqueness and Mystery: The element of mystery and uniqueness can captivate a man. Qualities or interests that are intriguing and different from his own can drive him to explore and understand her deeply. Supportive and Nurturing Nature: A man can become obsessed with a woman who is supportive and nurturing.
Smiling brightens up your features so you look more attractive, and laughing makes you look like you're having a great time. This can make a guy more interested in getting to know you. Keep a smile on your face while you're out trying to meet guys.
It has often been said that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach (= you can make a man love you by giving him good food). Top chefs believe the way to every person's heart is through their stomach. The best way to a woman's heart is through laughter and good conversation.
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