How to Save Money by Spending Money on Yourself (No, Really) (2024)

This is a post from Charlie Johnson, an online entrepreneur who paid off $25,000 of debt in four months doing things his friends thought were nuts. (Go Charlie!)

I know this sounds strange.

How can you save money by spending money? If you’re rolling your eyes right now or you think this is a joke – I don’t blame you.

But if you move on before reading this post, you’ll miss out on a POWERFUL method for saving money. I should know.

I used this method to pay off $25,000 of credit card debt in four months.

In order to do this right, you need to understand how spending and saving impact your debt freedom journey.

Let me explain…

I used to LOSE money by spending on myself.

For most of my adult life, I never paid attention to where my money was going.

I’d spend money on all sorts of things that I thought made me happy, and by the end of the month I’d have spent more than I earned. Plus, I wasn’t any happier than before all the spending.

Then one day I hit a wall. I’d racked up tons of credit card debt through reckless spending and my last credit card got declined.

I was completely broke.

I wanted to spend less and pay down my debt. But at the same time, I also wanted to enjoy life and be happy.

I decided to look over my credit card statements to figure out where my money was going. This is when I had a HUGE realization.

I was spending tons of money on things I didn’t care about.

So I made a change. I decided to spend money on the few things I knew made me happy, and cut back on the many things I wasn’t sure about.

And you know what? My savings SKYROCKETED! And as a bonus, I was even happier than before.

As it turned out, most of the things I spent money on didn’t make my life any more enjoyable, so cutting them was easy. As long as I continued to spend money on the things that made me happy, I could enjoy life and save money.

Over the coming months, I continued to implement this method until I paid off all my debt.

When you figure out the expenses in your life that matter, you can cut out the ones that don’t.

You may find that out of all the things you spend money on, only a few are really important for you to be happy and enjoy life. Once you cut out all that unnecessary spending, you could save hundreds or thousands of dollars each month, and be just as happy as before!

Of course, this is easier said than done.

It’s easy to mistake “wants” for “needs.” Maybe you think you need your cable TV even though you rarely watch it. Or maybe you think you’re a happier person going out for dinner a few nights a week even though you’d really be just as happy eating at home. Or maybe you feel that you need to start your day with a caffeine-infused beverage from Starbucks every morning even though you’d actually be fine with a home-brewed cup of joe.

So while you WANT to save money, you keep spending on things because you think you need them to be happy.

In some cases you may be right. But with others, you could be dead wrong.

Unfortunately, if you never figure out which expenses TRULY matter to you and align your spending accordingly, you’ll never know if your hard earned dollars are going to happiness-inducing, life-affirming purchases… or if you’re just throwing your money out the window.

At this point you might be wondering, why not cut back on ALL spending to save even more money?

And to that I say, do you really think you’ll be able to stick to your debt-payoff plan if you’re not having any fun and you hate life?

No. You need to have a fun budget and enjoy life in order to make it to the debt freedom finish line. And by spending money on just a few really important things (and eliminating or reducing everything else), you’ll enjoy life and save money at the same time.

What if you could save more money by spending on things that truly matter to you?

Wouldn’t it feel good to save more money each month? To have more more money available to put towards debt?

And to do all that while still enjoying life and spending on the things you care about?
Enter the prioritized spending plan.

This is REALLY simple. (It’s actually inspired by the well known 80/20 rule, and it’s great for saving for several reasons.)

The goal here is to figure out which expenses are important for you to enjoy life, spend money on them, and then cut costs in a big way on everything else.

Here’s how you start. Get out a sheet of paper and write down all the expenses you can think of. Try to get down everything you spend money on regularly. Rent, your phone bill, internet, food, etc.

If you don’t already have a budget, now’s a great time to put together a really quick and simple one. Check out this free budget template.

Next, we’re going to rank this list. Put a number next to each expense you wrote down. The number “1” represents the expense that contributes most to your enjoyment of life, and subsequent numbers are increasingly less important.

Here’s a quick example:

1 – Rent
2 – Groceries
3 – Internet
8 – Gym membership
4 – Getting lunch with best friend
5 – Netflix subscription

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Now look at your top five or six highest ranked expenses (the most important ones). If you spent your money on these things ALONE, could you be happy?

Meaning, if you ditched all those other things on your list, would you still be ok?

What if, for one week, you put aside money to spend on just the top 20% of your list, and drastically cut back your spending (or eliminated entirely) the rest?

If you do this and find that your happiness suffers, you might need to re-prioritize your list. Most of us don’t really know what makes us truly happy until we don’t have it anymore. That’s ok. Try again.

But if you do this and find that you’re as happy as before (or happier) and discover that you didn’t really need all those other things as much as you thought you did… well, that’s a discovery worth celebrating!

Which expenses you decide to prioritize or de-prioritize depends entirely on you and what makes you happy. If that cup of Starbucks in the morning truly does make you happy, then so be it, spend money on it.

But in turn, maybe you could cancel your cable TV subscription or eat at home more often.

The goal is to spend on the few things that matter the most to you and save your money on the many things that don’t.

So what do you think? Will you give this a try? Comment below or share this post if you’re going to try this (or already do this)!

If you’d like to learn more methods like this, check out Charlie’s Debt Destroyer book book where he shares lessons learned from paying off $25,000 of debt in four months.

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How to Save Money by Spending Money on Yourself (No, Really) (2024)

FAQs

How can I force myself to save money? ›

Canceling unnecessary subscriptions and automating your savings are a couple of simple ways to save money quickly. Switching banks, opening a short-term CD, and signing up for rewards programs can also help you save money. Making a budget and eliminating a spending habit each day can help lead to long-term savings.

How can I trick myself into spending less money? ›

How to Save Money: 23 Tips
  1. Make a budget.
  2. Say goodbye to debt.
  3. Set a savings goal.
  4. Save money automatically.
  5. Buy generic.
  6. Meal plan.
  7. Cancel some subscriptions and memberships.
  8. Adjust your tax withholdings.
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How do I justify spending money on myself? ›

Let's explore why self-investment is a worthy investment.
  1. Keep a Promise to Yourself. ...
  2. Prioritize Self-Care Over Life's Demands. ...
  3. Create Something to Look Forward To. ...
  4. Personal Growth. ...
  5. Show Yourself the Same Kind of Love You Show Others. ...
  6. Make Memories That Bring You Joy and a Boost of Confidence. ...
  7. Inspire Others.
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How can I save money if I spend too much? ›

Solutions for Overspending
  1. Leave your credit cards at home when you go out. In fact, leave your debit card at home too. ...
  2. Freeze your cards in a cup of water. ...
  3. Don't use your credit cards like a debit card. ...
  4. Create a Needs vs. ...
  5. Learn to shop smarter. ...
  6. Take the "impulse" out of impulse buys.

How to save $1,000 fast? ›

11 Easy Ways to Save $1,000 in 30 Days
  1. Create a Budget. ...
  2. Automate Your Savings. ...
  3. Create a Savings Bingo Sheet. ...
  4. Negotiate Your Bills. ...
  5. Separate Wants From Needs. ...
  6. Plan Your Meals. ...
  7. Buy Generic Brands. ...
  8. Cancel Unnecessary Subscriptions.
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How to save $10,000 in a year? ›

To reach $10,000 in one year, you'll need to save $833.33 each month. To break it down even further, you'll need to save $192.31 each week or $27.40 every day. These smaller chunks are much more realistic and simple to comprehend, making it easier to track your progress.

What is the 50 30 20 rule? ›

The 50-30-20 rule recommends putting 50% of your money toward needs, 30% toward wants, and 20% toward savings. The savings category also includes money you will need to realize your future goals.

What is the 30 day rule? ›

The premise of the 30-day savings rule is straightforward: When faced with the temptation of an impulse purchase, wait 30 days before committing to the buy. During this time, take the opportunity to evaluate the necessity and impact of the purchase on your overall financial goals.

Why won't I let myself spend money? ›

For some people, previous experiences of poverty or financial abuse can make them hesitant to spend money, even when they have the means to do so. These experiences can create a lasting fear of not having enough money or losing control over one's finances.

Why is it so hard for me to spend money? ›

People struggle to spend money for many different reasons. They may include financial anxiety or a history of financial trauma, transitioning from accumulation to decumulation into a new phase of life, or through identity and emotional connection to assets.

What is the no spend challenge? ›

Updated Fri, Mar 29 2024. Liz Knueven. The “no-spend” challenge has been around for years but gained new life in 2024, thanks to TikTok and No Spend January at the beginning of the year. Participants are encouraged to go on a spending “fast” by abstaining from buying anything but the barest essentials.

What is a no spend month? ›

For the no-spend challenge, you pay for essentials only for a set period of time. Thirty days is pretty common, so you might hear it called a no-spend month too. Basically you're covering your Four Walls (food, utilities, shelter and transportation) and other necessities, but you're saying no to all the extras.

Is overspending a mental disorder? ›

For some, overspending becomes buying-shopping disorder, or compulsive shopping disorder (CSD), which is characterized by repetitive, uncontrollable spending that causes serious life difficulties.

How can I save 10k in 6 months? ›

How I Saved $10,000 in Six Months
  1. Set goals & practice visualization. ...
  2. Have an abundance mindset. ...
  3. Stop lying to yourself & making excuses. ...
  4. Cut out the excess. ...
  5. Make automatic deposits. ...
  6. Use Mint. ...
  7. Invest in long-term happiness. ...
  8. Use extra money as extra savings, not extra spending.

Why is it so hard for me to save money? ›

Financial illiteracy is one of the biggest reasons people have difficulty saving or investing money. Many people don't understand how to save or budget their money, which causes them to spend more than they earn. Ignorance can also lead them to make bad financial decisions that can further hurt their ability to save.

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