Family Matters: The Money Squeeze Three families, living in multigenerational households, face difficult financial decisions surrounding elder care, paying for college and retirement.
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Three families, living in multigenerational households, face difficult financial decisions.
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Geneva Hunter (left), who runs the secretarial operations for a Washington, D.C., law firm, decided to take a hands-on approach to her mother's care and moved Ida Christian, 89, into her Maryland home. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Caring For Aging Relative: 'To Give Her A Good Life'
June 5, 2012 The finances, logistics and emotions involved in caring for an elderly family member can be overwhelming. But three caregivers in multigenerational households see little choice. "She did her best for me, and I want to do the best for her," Geneva Hunter says of her 89-year-old mother, Ida.
Caring For Aging Relative: 'To Give Her A Good Life'
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Ida Christian, who suffers from dementia, gets help from her granddaughter, Yolanda Hunter (left), in blowing out the candles on her birthday cake. Yolanda quit her lucrative job to become Ida's full-time caregiver. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Part 1: One Roof, Three Generations, Many Decisions
April 17, 2012 To cope with the hard times, millions of families have pulled together — stacking two, three, even four generations on top of one another. An NPR series explores the lives of three multigenerational households struggling with issues of money, duty and love.
Part 1: One Roof, Three Generations, Many Decisions
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Natasha Shamone-Gilmore (right) at church with her husband, Curtis Gilmore (center), and her father, Franklin Brunson, 81. Shamone-Gilmore moved her father into her Capitol Heights, Md., home after he developed dementia. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Part 2: Preparing For A Future That Includes Aging Parents
April 24, 2012 Nearly 10 million adult children are caring for aging parents today, according to a study by the MetLife Mature Market Institute. But, while aging is inevitable, planning for the costs associated with dependency in the latter phase of life doesn't come easily to most Americans.
Part 2: Preparing For A Future That Includes Aging Parents
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Ida Christian, 89, was diagnosed with dementia in 2008. Her condition demands around-the-clock care. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Part 3: Discovering The True Cost Of At-Home Caregiving
May 1, 2012 Few people want to turn over a loved one to institutional care. No matter how good the nursing home, it may seem cold and impersonal — and very expensive. But making the choice to provide care yourself is fraught with financial risks and personal sacrifices.
Part 3: Discovering The True Cost Of At-Home Caregiving
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AnnaBelle Bowers' long-time physician, Walter Watkin, gives her a kiss on the forehead at the end of her visit. When asked how long she had been coming to see him, he said, "Long enough for her file to be 2 inches thick." Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Part 4: Long-Term-Care Insurance: Who Needs It?
May 8, 2012 As the nation's roughly 78 million baby boomers move into old age, the need for long-term care will soar. But when it comes to long-term-care insurance, relatively few sign up. The policies can be expensive and some big insurance companies have stopped offering them.
Part 4: Long-Term-Care Insurance: Who Needs It?
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Maryland resident Nicholas McDonald, 24, has briefly abandoned his musical aspirations to enter the workforce and contribute to the family's finances. "I'd like to give my mom $100 every now and then," he says. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Part 5: Caring For Grandparent Matures A Young Man
May 15, 2012 Nicholas McDonald grew up tempted by drugs and under pressure to hit the streets. Lacking male role models, he says he always saw his mom as "the apple of my eye." She tried to protect him growing up. Now, the 24-year-old is doing his best to return the favor, helping provide for his multigenerational family.
Part 5: Caring For Grandparent Matures A Young Man
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Frank stands outside his home in Glen Allen, Va., which he co-owned with his mother, Ida. The family recently sold the home in order to free up money for Ida's care. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Part 6: Time To Move Grandma: What To Do With Her Home?
May 22, 2012 Depressed home prices make the decision to move an aging relative even more difficult than normal. So what should be done with the house? Try selling in a depressed market? Or rent it until prices perk up? One family weighs a tough choice as it struggles to pay for a grandmother's care.
Part 6: Time To Move Grandma: What To Do With Her Home?
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Chris Martin, 14, greets his great-grandmother AnnaBelle Bowers, 87, who lives part time with the Martin family in Harrisburg, Pa. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Part 7: Family Matters: Pitching In To Take Care Of Grandma
May 29, 2012 Sharing the duties of caring for the family's 87-year-old matriarch has brought the Martin family closer together. Everyone in the multigenerational household, including the teenage kids, lends a hand. But the situation is also forcing the Harrisburg, Pa., family to think about the future in new ways.
Part 7: Family Matters: Pitching In To Take Care Of Grandma
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Maryland resident Ida Christian, 89, began showing symptoms of Alzheimer's disease in 2009. Her daughter, Geneva Hunter, and granddaughter, Yolanda, decided to take a hands-on approach to Ida's care. Ida lives with Geneva, and Yolanda quit her job to become Ida's daytime caregiver. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Baby Boom Money Squeeze Is Set To Get Tighter
June 5, 2012 As this immense generation keeps aging, most will end up with dementia or other disabilities that require costly care. For individuals, families and taxpayers, this demographic shift will drain dollars and attention, and force extremely difficult decisions about living arrangements, as well as end-of-life care.
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Listening To Parents Key To Financial Responsibility
May 29, 2012 Mothers and fathers can make a difference in whether their kids become spenders or savers, studies have found. Young people whose families had included them in conversations about money and budgets were much more likely to make more responsible financial decisions in the future.
Listening To Parents Key To Financial Responsibility
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Kelley Hawkins (center) smiles at her daughter Carley (left) as her other daughter, Chelsea (right), looks on, in their family home in Harrisburg, Pa. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Paying For College: More Tough Decisions
May 15, 2012 From your late 40s through early 60s, you're supposed to squirrel away cash to cope with health care costs in your old age. But for millions of Americans, middle age also is the time when children are seeking help with higher-education bills, and elderly parents may be needing assistance with daily care.
AnnaBelle Bowers, 87, talks to her granddaughter Carley, 17 (right), and her friends after they returned from lacrosse practice. "I'm not rich money-wise, but with my family I'm a millionaire," Bowers says. Kainaz Amaria/NPR hide caption
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Family Matters: Meet The Families
April 17, 2012 Meet the families in Morning Edition's series about three multigenerational households struggling with issues of money, duty and love.
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'Bittersweet Season' Details Caring For Aging Mom
April 25, 2012 As part of Morning Edition's Family Matters financial literacy series, Renee Montagne talks to Jane Gross, author of A Bittersweet Season, about caring for her aging mother, and what she wishes she had known before she started.
'Bittersweet Season' Details Caring For Aging Mom
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AnnaBelle Bowers, NPR Series Interviewee, Dies At 87
March 5, 2013 In our personal finance series last spring, we met three families who were taking care of school-age or college-aged kids, and caring for an aging relative. It was three generations under one roof. Steve Inskeep reports that one of the people we met in that series, 87-year-old AnnaBelle Bowers, or Snootzie as she was called, died over the weekend.
AnnaBelle Bowers, NPR Series Interviewee, Dies At 87
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Waiting To Buy Long-Term-Care Insurance Adds Up
May 9, 2012 Kimberly Lankford, personal finance writer for Kiplinger.com and Kiplinger's Personal Finance magazine, talks to David Greene about the shifting market for long-term-care insurance, and if it is still worth buying.
Waiting To Buy Long-Term-Care Insurance Adds Up
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'Sandwich Generation' Must Make Tough Choices
May 8, 2012 Record numbers of families consist of adult children, parents and grandparents under one roof. NPR correspondent David Greene and senior business editor Marilyn Geewax talk about the NPR series "Family Matters: The Money Squeeze," which focuses on the pressures faced by the "sandwich generation."
'Sandwich Generation' Must Make Tough Choices
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Workers Turned Caregivers Lose More Than Wages
May 1, 2012 The average caregiver is 49 years old. Cheryl Matheis, senior vice president for policy at AARP, tells Steve Inskeep when a worker has to leave their job to care for a relative, they lose on average $325,000 in lifetime income — from lost wages, Social Security and pensions.
Workers Turned Caregivers Lose More Than Wages
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Can You Pay For Yourself, Your Kids, Your Parents?
April 24, 2012 More adults are helping pay for aging parents, at an average of $3,500 a month, according to MetLife. That's why experts say it's vital to plan for a future that includes parents. For NPR's series, "Family Matters: The Money Squeeze," host Michel Martin speaks with NPR's Marilyn Geewax, journalist Joan Lunden, and Houston Mayor Annise Parker.
Can You Pay For Yourself, Your Kids, Your Parents?
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