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Some people who are clearly in the wrong are shocked when they tell someone “sue me”… and then they do. The law is there to help everyone get justice. And though the system might have some flaws, it still fights for the good of all. In one case, it helped a woman finally get all the alimony payments her ex-husband had owed her and her two kids.
Redditor u/ChickWithAnAttitude wrote up a long and enthralling story about how her husband ended up backing out of an agreement to make alimony payments, and how it ended up costing him far more in the long run. What started out as a very amicable separation eventually led to a lot of resentment. Grab yourselves a cup of tea or coffee, and let’s dive deep into what broken promises can lead to, Pandas. Scroll down for the full story.
Bored Panda reached out to u/ChickWithAnAttitude and she was kind enough to answer our questions. “I think it was a shame for him to turn into a monster. If he had come to me civilly and explained he was strapped or something like that, we could have worked things out and continued the great relationship we had, but since he came in hard, the kids are suffering,” she was very candid about what happened.
Read on for the redditor’s recommendations if you ever find yourselves in a similar situation, why prenups might not be a bad idea, and why it’s absolutely vital to not make your kids choose between their parents.
A redditor shared what happened when her ex-husband backed out of the agreement they had about him paying alimony
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What started out as a very friendly separation eventually led to a lot of anger and drama
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The Starsong Princess The Starsong Princess Community Member Follow
The biggest mistake women make in a divorce is they are nice. And by nice, I don’t mean fair or amicable, I mean they act like a doormat and don’t look after their best interests so that their ex won’t get upset. The ex probably though OP wouldn’t do anything when he cut off alimony and he would get away with it by playing his version of hardball. In many cases, he’d be right but he underestimated OP. I’m sure he whines to his friends and family about how his greedy ex bleeds him. Women need to look after their own interests because men sure look after theirs.
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When my bestie divorced, her ex refused to do anything to support the kids or his dogs (which he dumped on her). By the time the divorce rolled around, she had kept good records. The court mandated that he pay back support and alimony in a big 6 figure amount. Fair's fair.
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That good! She should not pay for his his HE DUMPED on her!
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Agnes Jekyll 1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017
A friend's husband invested all their savings in his start-up. It failed, they declared bankruptcy and about 8 months later, he left her and their children for a young, wealthy woman. He doesn't work, and he does not pay any support for his children (or dental care or school fees). My friend works three jobs and gets to work on a bicycle. It's really awful. I can't think how someone would treat their children like that.
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Man-child. Probably didn't develop emotionally after the age of 12. She needs to take him to court asap
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The Starsong Princess The Starsong Princess Community Member Follow
The biggest mistake women make in a divorce is they are nice. And by nice, I don’t mean fair or amicable, I mean they act like a doormat and don’t look after their best interests so that their ex won’t get upset. The ex probably though OP wouldn’t do anything when he cut off alimony and he would get away with it by playing his version of hardball. In many cases, he’d be right but he underestimated OP. I’m sure he whines to his friends and family about how his greedy ex bleeds him. Women need to look after their own interests because men sure look after theirs.
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When my bestie divorced, her ex refused to do anything to support the kids or his dogs (which he dumped on her). By the time the divorce rolled around, she had kept good records. The court mandated that he pay back support and alimony in a big 6 figure amount. Fair's fair.
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That good! She should not pay for his his HE DUMPED on her!
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Agnes Jekyll Agnes Jekyll Community Member Follow
A friend's husband invested all their savings in his start-up. It failed, they declared bankruptcy and about 8 months later, he left her and their children for a young, wealthy woman. He doesn't work, and he does not pay any support for his children (or dental care or school fees). My friend works three jobs and gets to work on a bicycle. It's really awful. I can't think how someone would treat their children like that.
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Man-child. Probably didn't develop emotionally after the age of 12. She needs to take him to court asap
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