The people around you (this includes family and friends) will think you are completely nuts if you refuse to have these debts. When that happens, it means you are definitely on the right track! Whether you are guilty of 1 or all 5 of these debts, you are not alone, and you can decide to not have them ever again.
1. Personal Loan
Borrowing money from a friend or family member is a kind of debt. This is such an easy one to overlook because it didn’t come with any contracts or interest. It just feels like a nice thing someone did for you. Guess what? This is a loan, which means this is debt.
Aside from the fact, you will have to pay them back, borrowing from friends or family can cause such a strain on the relationship. Either the lender of the money will be judging your every action until they are paid back (is that a new sweater you are wearing? Did you buy that with the money I loaned you?), or you will feel guilty for not paying them back right away and avoid being around them. See what I mean? Strained relationship. Just don’t do it.
2. Credit card use
How many times have I been told by people who use credit cards that it isn’t a big deal because they pay it off every month? So many times! Here’s the thing, until you pay off the total you have accumulated on your card all month, everything that you purchased was purchased with borrowed money.
The benefits of maybe earning some points you can cash in for gift cards or travel miles is not worth the risk of you not paying it off in time. If you have an intimate relationship with your credit card, you will likely lean on it when times get tough and start racking up the debt. I have had people tell me I am not living my life correctly because I refuse to use a credit card. Trust me, you are better off without one. You do not need it to survive.
3. Financing for personal or household items
Businesses are always trying to make money, and they do their best to accommodate the needs of their customers to get the sale. This has led to the option to finance pretty much anything. Ifyou have a house you need to furnish you can finance couches, beds, dressers, washer, dryer, refrigerator, rugs. You name it; you can finance it.
Our need for instant gratification has been met completely with the availability to get what we need to today and worry about paying for it tomorrow. As an added incentive, most places run deals of 0% interest for 12-24 months. What could be better?
This falls into the same family as credit cards. Even if your intention is to pay the furniture off in one year with no interest, until it is paid off, you are living on borrowed money. This is debt. There is the risk of you not paying it off in time, and you typically could have negotiated a lower price if you had the cash for it up front.
4. Student loans
This one is such a big deal. From day one we are told borrowing money for education is necessary, and there is no other way to get through school unless you have a rich uncle to pay for it for you. On top of that, student loans are considered “good debt” in the eyes of the bank. You won’t be penalized for this debt, right?
Wrong! Borrowing money for education is debt. There is no good debt or bad debt; just debt. This is such a normal part of our society now that people don’t even bat an eye when you tell them you have 5 figures of debt from school.
I have even talked to people who are struggling to make ends meet so they are going to take out student loans to get a degree to make more money. This makes no sense! Save for school. Adding debt to your life, even if it is educational debt, is not the answer to becoming more successful. Trust me, I basically stole 10 years of my financial future in the form of student loans to pay for 4 years of vet school. Not. Worth. It……and I’m still looking for that rich uncle.