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When a man hesitates to hug male friends in public or sweats at the mere thought of carrying a female friend’s purse for her, it makes you wonder how come this is such a big deal. But while we all bear different perspectives on the world around us, some of these unexplainable behaviors can reveal a way bigger picture.

People say it has to do with some men being insecure about their masculinity. How come? Well, it’s the fear of losing one's status as a “real man” in other people’s eyes, which makes the guy think he would be looked at as tenuous. There’s an old-fashioned belief that a man has to earn his status through proof of action, or a test of some sort, that makes him the man he really is. And although many men are aware of the fact that this is not how gender works, some still follow this ancient notion of manhood.

So when a TikToker @richtiktoxic asked people “What is something that men do that lets you know their insecure about their masculinity?” his video went viral with 1.1M views. “I’ll go first. As soon as a man refers to himself as an alpha, you know he’s insecure,” said Rich and passed the baton onto other people on social media who had a lot to say on the topic.

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I would even call that abusive.

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I believe the word "Alpha" has just replaced the word "Arsehole".

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Bored Panda reached out to the author of the video named Richard, better known by his TikTok handle @rich.tik.toxic. Rich is a successful online content creator and journalist with 333.7k TikTok followers who was happy to answer some questions for us. When asked how Rich got the idea to ask people about the signs of insecure masculinity, the author said that “the video that sparked this entire debate was one created by my good friend Brittany Guzman (@_brittguz on TikTok).”

“It was a reference to a study done in the UK regarding the prevalence of sexual harassment. She encountered an incredible amount of hate comments simply for referencing a study. Men made it known they were unhappy with her bringing this data to light; so much so that at one point I think her video had 100 likes and 1000 comments,” Rich explained.

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I love that my wife earns more; it means we have more money. Who cares you which of you has the higher paycheck?

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What is a simp?

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“In comparison,” he continued: “most videos have five to ten times more likes than comments. If you are not a man who sexually harasses women, why would you be triggered by this study? I realized it's because 'being a man' has become the defining characteristic of men’s self-identity.”

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Rich also said that “Pointing out how problematic typical male behavior has become is perceived by men as a personal attack.” According to him, “until men can realize that their biological sex is no more than a scientific category, they’ll be unable to truly define their self-identity.”

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I feel like this question does matter. There is a lifestyle/personality difference between a woman who’s slept with a couple of men and one that’s slept with like 100. If you answer and the guy shames you, that’s one thing. If you ask him and he says his number being high is different than yours being high, that’s bs. But asking in itself isn’t toxic.

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Yeah, that's been the story of my life.

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Speaking of the answers he received, Rich said a few of them caught him by surprise, “more so because of how accurate and detailed many of the responses were. Just about all of these behaviors are the manifestation of outdated societal norms that men are told to abide by.”

“Things like driving a lifted truck, unnecessary assertions of dominance, and disliking anything feminine were common responses. Those behaviors seem so ridiculous when looked at from an objective standpoint.”

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Me and my wife blame each other for everything as a... sort-of-joke (I don't really want to use 'Joke' but can't think of another word that fits). She farts, then says 'Babe that's disgusting!' and I say 'sorry'. I'll forget to put something away, then say, 'Oh Darling, you've left this stuff everywhere!' and She'll say 'Sorry. Can you deal with it for me now?'

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you forgot "Nice booty"

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“The beauty of the time we live in is that you get to be whoever you want,” Rich said and added: “Don't do yourself the injustice of using outdated gender stereotypes and norms to create your identity.Stop putting value in the contemporary ideals of what is masculine and what is feminine.”

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“Masculinity is defined,” he concluded, “as having the traits of someone who identifies as a man. If you identify as a man, you are already masculine. You get to decide what masculinity means for you.”

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Everyone who has ever played team sports and had to have a communal shower knows the foot/p*nis size thing is a myth... in fact, its more of an insecurity from those who have big feet but are ashamed of the size of their manhood...

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Also, if you tell a friend you’re bisexual and the first thing they wonder is if you like them or have a crush on them, think about that. Not telling you what to do, but just think about it.

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Sadly, this article is proving this statement.

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Rich’s TikTok audience is expanding rapidly, but he assured us that he never wanted to be an influencer. “Even calling myself an influencer feels so ridiculous. I was always the person behind the camera. I worked with a few social media celebrities when I was starting as a photographer and videographer creating viral content on platforms like Snapchat and Instagram,” the author confessed.

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Maybe they are and too scared to come out.

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Isn't this when they don't want to date trans girls, only born girls? Makes sense for me to give it a name.

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Speaking as someone currently on her period, I can confirm that periods are gross. And man, woman, or other, any one is entitled to be grossed out by used sanitary products or menstrual blood left on the loo seat. That said, unused sanitary supplies are not gross, and a man secure in his masculinity should not hesitate to buy them for the women in his life if requested to do so.

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I need one of those insecure men as a referee this morning. Hubby and I are fighting over who gets to wear the forest green sweater in the Zoom meeting.

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"I'd share with you, but I know tough guys don't eat chocolate." Yum, I get the whole box to myself.

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I have to admit that, in my teenage years, I denied liking anything feminine (such as rom coms and soppy love songs). I now look back and laugh at the old me.

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Rich believes that as much as virality hinges on luck, “the only people that get lucky creating viral videos are the ones actively trying to create them. Fight to get to the front of the line so you have the highest chance of actually getting what you want,” he concluded.

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Ugh, I just hate this. EVERYONE CAN CRY!

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I'm on the fence. I understand who this is targeting (the same people that say 'all lives matter'), but the phrase doesn't belong to one group and one subject matter alone. A girl at work has just split up from her boyfriend, she says 'All men are arseholes' I say, 'most of them, yeah', But when she asks me why all men cheat, I will say, 'Not all men, just the ones you've dated so far.'

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As a former heavy drinker, I can quite happily say that the best alcoholic drinks are the one that don't taste like your drinking alcohol. If you like the taste, drink it! But please drink responsibly.

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Men who share their sexual exploits. why??

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I've had that tried on me, but I have a killer grip strength so they only try it once :) still hurts tho! (Edit: my legs are ok-ish for walking and not much else, So I do most chores purely on arm strength where possible, hence crazy grip. One of my only physical strengths ^-^)

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Men can wear whatever they want; nice clothes, nice shoes, nice haistyles, nice rings, nice jewelry, nice nails. You know,... like ALL ppl... ;)

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That`s envy

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European here, unpopular opinion here... I just don't get the US obsession with trucks full stop... they are ugly, slow, poorly made, a massive waste of space, drive awfully and almost everyone who has one just uses it for their commute or to pop down to Walmart...

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Wait what? People don't like when a woman compliments them on their appearance? It's nice to hear from anyone, male or female, that you look good today

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That has to do with individuals! We're all different

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I am sorry but stating their opinion is fine, taking it further by trying to belittle them or make fun of them is where the line is crossed...

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It's a small line between pride and arrogance

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You know how to tell when someone is insecure? When they make comments likeelStiJneriNO.

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I think it is less about their insecurity and more about their lack of skill when if comes to trolling. It is an art. Give poor old elStiJneriNO time to perfect it.

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When you feel the need to comment on pictures about insecure men defending the behavior they're talking about...

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Maybe they wanted to get a list the easy way for part 2...because if so, it sure worked.

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So annoying browsing through a lot of pictures, when it easily just could've been text.

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You know how to tell when someone is insecure? When they make comments likeelStiJneriNO.

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I think it is less about their insecurity and more about their lack of skill when if comes to trolling. It is an art. Give poor old elStiJneriNO time to perfect it.

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Maybe they wanted to get a list the easy way for part 2...because if so, it sure worked.

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What is the true definition of masculinity? ›

Masculinity = social expectations of being a man: The term 'masculinity' refers to the roles, behaviors and attributes that are considered appropriate for boys and men in a given society. Masculinity is constructed and defined socially, historically and politically, rather than being biologically driven.

What does it mean to be insecure as a man? ›

The intense need for reassurance and lack of confidence are the clear signs of an insecure guy. He's likely to ask you a lot of questions about himself as he wants you to praise him. He is very concerned about his appearance.

What makes a man feel masculine? ›

Pleasuring a partner makes many guys feel truly manly. Show him that you're enjoying your intimate moments by moaning and responding to his touch. Additionally, assure him afterwards that you enjoyed it. You might say, “That was amazing,” or “You're so good at that.”

Why masculinity is important for every man? ›

By embracing positive masculinity, boys and young men can create healthier, more positive relationships with others and with themselves. They can learn to express their emotions in a healthy way, communicate effectively with others, and respect the boundaries of others.

What is masculinity quizlet? ›

Masculinity. A national culture attribute that describes the extent to which the culture favors traditional masculine work roles of achievement, power, and control. Societal values are characterized by assertiveness and materialism.

What is masculinity in a bad way? ›

Toxic masculinity is a term that has been gaining traction in the past few years. This term refers to the dominant form of masculinity wherein men use dominance, violence, and control to assert their power and superiority.

Can men feel insecure? ›

There are some studies, like this one, that even show men are more likely to feel anxious and insecure about their bodies compared to women. MORE. And we see it every day in our studio. But what we also see is that men tend to have a harder time expressing and verbalizing their insecurities than women do.

Why do men feel insecure in relationship? ›

Six in 10 men feel insecure when it comes to dating, with fear of rejection, their age and appearance the top contributing factors. And, twice as many men are now looking for 'real love' rather than no-string sex (20% versus 11% respectively).

Does man feel insecure? ›

Feeling insecure isn't exclusive to women. Men experience it, too, especially in relationships. Insecurity in a relationship can make you do things you wouldn't normally do. It's like a little voice whispering doubts in your ear, making you question everything.

How do you make a man feel desired? ›

But they're good to remember and go a long way in building desire.
  1. Make out. ...
  2. Say “Thank you.” And be specific. ...
  3. React to their little victories. ...
  4. Prioritize eye contact. ...
  5. Listen as your partner talks about something they're super passionate about. ...
  6. Give them a hug. ...
  7. Cook together. ...
  8. Flirt.
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Why is masculinity attractive? ›

Carol Dweck, a leading psychologist, describes the mindset behind this attraction: "Women are often drawn to men with a growth mindset, individuals who are continuously striving to become the best version of themselves. This potential for personal growth is an alluring quality."

How do men express their masculinity? ›

Look up to positive male role models, understand who you are as a person and be your own biggest fan while being honest with yourself. Also, don't be afraid to express how you feel, people will try to suppress your feelings as a man, ignore them, just don't make it your personality.

What does true masculinity look like? ›

A man who is truly masculine embraces responsibility and loves, honours, protects and provides for his family and loved ones. He lives with integrity, motivated by conviction, not comfort or convenience. True masculinity is not determined by how much physical strength a man has but rather the strength of his character.

What is the modern definition of masculinity? ›

Traits like integrity, authenticity, and how he cares for himself and those around him are integral to how a man perceives his own masculinity today — versus physical strength, power, and affluence that prior generations may have prioritized.”

What are the 4 types of masculinity? ›

identified four different types of masculinity: hegemonic, subordinate, complacent and marginal.

What are the three types of masculinity? ›

Researchers out of the University of British Columbia studied 92 straight men from diverse cultural backgrounds between the ages of 19 and 43 and discovered three types of masculinities: neo-traditional, egalitarian and progressive.

What is the other meaning of masculinity? ›

the set of qualities considered appropriate for or characteristic of men some men believe that wearing pink would undermine their masculinity. maleness. manhood. manliness. virility.

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