19-Year-Old Refuses to Be Family's Financial Provider: Selfish or Justified? 😲 (2024)

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Taking Care of Business 🎯 Family Freeloaders 🙄 Holiday Havoc 🎄 Broken Trust 💔 Money Mismanagement 🤦‍♀️ The Final Straw 🥡 Caught Red-Handed 😠 Selfish Accusations 🤬 Family Feud Erupts 🌋 Standing Up for Oneself 💪 Drawing the Line ⛔ Mom's Neutral Stance 😐 A Battle of Boundaries and Family Expectations ⚔️ NTA - OP advised to move out for peace. Lock door. NTA! Your money, your choice. Your spending habits are healthy 👏 NTA refuses to be family's financial provider. Petty aunt complains. 19-year-old refuses to financially support family, offers alternative solutions 👏 Create a private space for yourself with a lock 🔒 User advises setting boundaries with family, suggests moving out if necessary. 👍 Breaking free from family expectations. 💪🏻 Buy a lock and stand your ground! 💪🏼 Living with mom for health reasons, commenter seeks clarification. 🙏 Prioritizing mental health over family financial pressure. 🙌 Take care of your needs first 👍. Family shouldn't mooch off you 😒 Codependent mom enabling family's poor treatment. NTA for standing up. Setting boundaries with family over money and food 🍴 Protect your boundaries and belongings with a lock and camera 🛠 Setting boundaries with family, NTA stands their ground 💪 Secure your room and set boundaries with mooching family members. 💪 Surviving family moochers: A guide by the comment section 😎 Setting boundaries with family: NTA comment offers support 👍 Setting boundaries with family: locking doors and shutting down gravy train 🚨 NTA - Commenter not responsible for family's finances 👍 Protect your privacy and property with a lock 🔒 Setting boundaries with family is important for personal growth. 👍 Commenter supports OP's decision and criticizes family's behavior. NTA 👍 Enjoy the silence 😊 and lock your door 🔐 Family using 19-year-old as an ATM? NTA, you're justified 💯 Start building your future with a Roth IRA 💰 NTA. Commenter suggests changing perspective and setting boundaries with family. Escape the cycle: NTA for refusing to support extended family 👏 Take control of your space 👍🏠 with these tips! Setting boundaries and rewarding hard work. 💪 Family pressures 19-year-old to provide, comment defends NTA. Toxic family? NTA at 19! Mom needs to set boundaries 🙏 Privacy is key 🔑. NTA for setting boundaries. Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself. 💪 Standing up to family pressure: NTA and a win 👏 Don't give in to emotional blackmail. Stand your ground 💪 Lock your door and don't buy them anything. NTA 😎 Family expects 19-year-old to provide for them? NTA 👏 NTA, but mom needs to cut off ungrateful leeches 👍 Roommate advice: 😊 Invest in mini-fridge and lock for privacy. Lock your door and read this NTA comment 😎 NTA: Encouraging OP to move out and live their life 🙌 NTA stands up to entitled family; receives support from commenter. Entitled relatives? NTA for refusing to fund them 🙌 Creative solution to family financial pressure 😎 Comment suggests OP should distance themselves from family. 😎 Be resourceful and focus on yourself. 💪🏻 Invest in a lock and mini fridge. Don't be their provider. NTA 👍 Commenter advises leaving for independence, NTA verdict supported 👍 Commenter suggests buying a lock to invest in family relationships. 😎 Creative solution to family financial pressure 😎👏 Cutting off family for self-care: justified or selfish? 🤔 Set boundaries to avoid being taken advantage of. NTA 👍 Privacy and snacks: the ultimate solution for family conflicts 😍 Escape the swirl 🌪 NTA's advice to move out ASAP Setting boundaries with entitled family members: NTA, don't enable them 🙏 Agreement all around! NTA comment receives praise 👏 NTA stands their ground and demands payment. 💪 Commenter supports OP's decision and offers advice to mom. 👍 Take control of your finances and privacy. You deserve respect. 💪🏻 Take control and lock your stuff up. NTA 💪 Standing up for oneself and setting boundaries 💪 NTA, but peace requires moving out 🙌 Secure your stuff! NTA 19yo shouldn't be family provider. 👍 Protect your food and privacy with a lock and fridge 😎 Lock your room and live free! NTA 👏 Family isn't always blood. NTA for setting boundaries 👏 Figurines are serious business, NTA has their priorities straight 🤩 Setting boundaries and breaking the cycle. 👏 NTA NTA! Let's support financial independence 💪 Escape toxic family? NTA says 'move out' 🙌
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Imagine being 19 years old, financially independent, and living with your mom due to health reasons. You work hard, buy your own groceries, and even help out your mom with expenses. But your family seems to think they're entitled to your hard-earned money and belongings. 😒 This is the reality for one young adult who finally decided to stand up for themselves and put an end to their family's freeloading ways. 💪🚫

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Broken Trust 💔

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Money Mismanagement 🤦‍♀️

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The Final Straw 🥡

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Caught Red-Handed 😠

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Selfish Accusations 🤬

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Family Feud Erupts 🌋

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Standing Up for Oneself 💪

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Drawing the Line ⛔

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Mom's Neutral Stance 😐

19-Year-Old Refuses to Be Family's Financial Provider: Selfish or Justified? 😲 (21)

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A Battle of Boundaries and Family Expectations ⚔️

This 19-year-old's story of standing up to their freeloading family has struck a chord with many. Tired of their belongings being stolen or broken and their money being misused, they finally put their foot down and declared they are not their family's financial provider. 💢🚫 While their mom remains neutral and hopes for forgiveness, the rest of the family seems to be struggling with the concept of boundaries and personal responsibility. Let's see what the internet thinks of this situation... 🤔

NTA - OP advised to move out for peace. Lock door.

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amarschderwelt | amarschderwelt

NTA! Your money, your choice. Your spending habits are healthy 👏

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xatherx | xatherx

19-year-old refuses to financially support family, offers alternative solutions 👏

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twitchydigits | twitchydigits

Create a private space for yourself with a lock 🔒

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BlackStarBlues | BlackStarBlues

User advises setting boundaries with family, suggests moving out if necessary. 👍

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Breaking free from family expectations. 💪🏻

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Revolutionary-Fun-73 | Revolutionary-Fun-73

Buy a lock and stand your ground! 💪🏼

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MeowGirly | MeowGirly

Living with mom for health reasons, commenter seeks clarification. 🙏

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Traveling-Techie | Traveling-Techie

Prioritizing mental health over family financial pressure. 🙌

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EssexCatWoman | EssexCatWoman

Take care of your needs first 👍. Family shouldn't mooch off you 😒

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Sjsharkb831 | Sjsharkb831

Codependent mom enabling family's poor treatment. NTA for standing up.

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HarnessMeDesignsOUB | HarnessMeDesignsOUB

Setting boundaries with family over money and food 🍴

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TarantellaHELT | TarantellaHELT

Protect your boundaries and belongings with a lock and camera 🛠

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Conquer44Me | Conquer44Me

Setting boundaries with family, NTA stands their ground 💪

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HunterDangerous1366 | HunterDangerous1366

Secure your room and set boundaries with mooching family members. 💪

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Surviving family moochers: A guide by the comment section 😎

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GrandmasBigEyes | GrandmasBigEyes

Setting boundaries with family: NTA comment offers support 👍

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MysteriousWays10 | MysteriousWays10

Setting boundaries with family: locking doors and shutting down gravy train 🚨

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lonelysilverrain | lonelysilverrain

NTA - Commenter not responsible for family's finances 👍

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randomhorny1 | randomhorny1

Protect your privacy and property with a lock 🔒

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kinq102 | kinq102

Setting boundaries with family is important for personal growth. 👍

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Puzzleheaded_Key_470 | Puzzleheaded_Key_470

Commenter supports OP's decision and criticizes family's behavior. NTA 👍

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Lotex_Style | Lotex_Style

Enjoy the silence 😊 and lock your door 🔐

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Mirianda666 | Mirianda666

Family using 19-year-old as an ATM? NTA, you're justified 💯

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HippopotamusFart | HippopotamusFart

Start building your future with a Roth IRA 💰

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JetKeel | JetKeel

NTA. Commenter suggests changing perspective and setting boundaries with family.

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totis36 | totis36

Escape the cycle: NTA for refusing to support extended family 👏

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Take control of your space 👍🏠 with these tips!

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Enia_ | Enia_

Setting boundaries and rewarding hard work. 💪

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TiffanyChelle | TiffanyChelle

Family pressures 19-year-old to provide, comment defends NTA.

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Toxic family? NTA at 19! Mom needs to set boundaries 🙏

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alien_in_the_lab | alien_in_the_lab

Privacy is key 🔑. NTA for setting boundaries.

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teresajs | teresajs

Setting boundaries and standing up for yourself. 💪

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Fluffy-Individual-19 | Fluffy-Individual-19

Standing up to family pressure: NTA and a win 👏

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disusedhospital | disusedhospital

Don't give in to emotional blackmail. Stand your ground 💪

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nebagram | nebagram

Lock your door and don't buy them anything. NTA 😎

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k8tied1 | k8tied1

Family expects 19-year-old to provide for them? NTA 👏

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NTA, but mom needs to cut off ungrateful leeches 👍

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bzsbal | bzsbal

Roommate advice: 😊 Invest in mini-fridge and lock for privacy.

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lecorbeauamelasse | lecorbeauamelasse

Lock your door and read this NTA comment 😎

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Salz78 | Salz78

NTA: Encouraging OP to move out and live their life 🙌

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Sriracha_sos | Sriracha_sos

NTA stands up to entitled family; receives support from commenter.

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theVampireTaco | theVampireTaco

Entitled relatives? NTA for refusing to fund them 🙌

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Percentage_Express | Percentage_Express

Creative solution to family financial pressure 😎

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toro_bubbletea | toro_bubbletea

Comment suggests OP should distance themselves from family. 😎

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Vette--1 | Vette--1

Be resourceful and focus on yourself. 💪🏻

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Lacexupsm | Lacexupsm

Invest in a lock and mini fridge. Don't be their provider. NTA 👍

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Commenter advises leaving for independence, NTA verdict supported 👍

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jhonseo1985 | jhonseo1985

Commenter suggests buying a lock to invest in family relationships. 😎

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ReekyRumpFedRatsbane | ReekyRumpFedRatsbane

Creative solution to family financial pressure 😎👏

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heva22 | heva22

Cutting off family for self-care: justified or selfish? 🤔

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Connect-Offer9090 | Connect-Offer9090

Set boundaries to avoid being taken advantage of. NTA 👍

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Improbablyfromhell | Improbablyfromhell

Privacy and snacks: the ultimate solution for family conflicts 😍

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Virtual-Delivery3250 | Virtual-Delivery3250

Escape the swirl 🌪 NTA's advice to move out ASAP

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Safe_Frosting1807 | Safe_Frosting1807

Setting boundaries with entitled family members: NTA, don't enable them 🙏

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sweetliasugar | sweetliasugar

Agreement all around! NTA comment receives praise 👏

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Frankly_Ridiculous | Frankly_Ridiculous

NTA stands their ground and demands payment. 💪

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meifahs_musungs | meifahs_musungs

Commenter supports OP's decision and offers advice to mom. 👍

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Shejuan01 | Shejuan01

Take control of your finances and privacy. You deserve respect. 💪🏻

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Losticus | Losticus

Take control and lock your stuff up. NTA 💪

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Realistic-Animator-3 | Realistic-Animator-3

Standing up for oneself and setting boundaries 💪

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lowkey_loveithere | lowkey_loveithere

NTA, but peace requires moving out 🙌

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Scared-March7443 | Scared-March7443

Secure your stuff! NTA 19yo shouldn't be family provider. 👍

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Ahsoka88 | Ahsoka88

Protect your food and privacy with a lock and fridge 😎

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Squizness | Squizness

Lock your room and live free! NTA 👏

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Top-Bit85 | Top-Bit85

Family isn't always blood. NTA for setting boundaries 👏

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Figurines are serious business, NTA has their priorities straight 🤩

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Azurlium | Azurlium

Setting boundaries and breaking the cycle. 👏 NTA

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[deleted] | [deleted]

NTA! Let's support financial independence 💪

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Fluid_Tip5113 | Fluid_Tip5113

Escape toxic family? NTA says 'move out' 🙌

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